Thank you Cedar for your honest and upfront answer! I do appologise on beforehand that my english might not be up to standard as it is not my first laungage. I´m aware that it might seem that I rush into this, but I feel that I'm quite clear-headed about it. I've never felt such a strong bond with anyone before like I do with him, and this just through conversation. It´s on a deeper level as you might say. My deepest concern (or question) is if he feels the same or only see me as a potential friend? That´s why I'm searching for an answer, if I should rule him out and move on or if there´s a light in the tunnel. I understand that the cards can't give a strict answer to my questions but my curiosity can't stop me from wondering what the current energy surrounding romance with me is? I thank you for your answer and also all those who have taken your time reading my posts. If anyone would like to do a reading Ill be more than happy (but I do understand that there´s isn´t time to do it for all of us who wonders). I'm not sensitive to my nature so I feel open to any answers that the cards might give!
Best regards / V

Without referring to the cards and through my connection with you and him, I get the feeling, mind my word – feeling - that he himself does not know what he feels about you. However, I sense that he is a gentle soul and will be there for you and when asked the question, he will simply smile as he probably is new to all this. I also get the feeling that you do not wish to ‘waste’ time with him (as you sort of said so) and you will proceed or forget if you don’t see any future with this guy. So, the decision is yours really and the only way to find out is asking him direct and get the answer from him.

I will, however, pick three cards for you and will not ask a third party question (forbidden by the rules of this site) and instead will ask: What does Veralisa need to know about herself and her feelings towards this man?

I am using the Rider Waite deck.
Knight of Pentacles. Queen of Swords. Ace of Cups.

We have two people here and a new beginning.
Let us look at the two people around you. These could either be real people in your life, coming into your life or their personality traits which you should either adopt or discard. But, more often, these are people in your life or coming into your life.

The Knight of Pentacles (Earth element) is a man in his late twenties to mid thirties who is a very slow  mover, careful and meticulous in what he does. He has a financial head over his shoulders and whilst he is a slow thinker and a mover, he is usually a reliable person to get with, and on business matters you would not really go wrong with him. He is, however, very calculating and at times quite methodical and hard working that one wonders: does he ever have fun?  Does he ever let his hair down and see the lighter side of life? Is this someone you are currently dealing with or someone with these personality traits having an impact on you?

The Queen of Swords (Element of Air) is a mother figure, a lady in her fifties who does not take nonsense from anyone. She is blunt, straight forward and speaks her mind without hesitation. She is not ruled by her heart but more by her head. She does not fall victim to emotions and she looks at life with a realistic mind. Her opinions may come across as being harsh, as she has a tendency of telling the truth and leave fantasies out. Is this a woman in your life whose personality traits may be of help to you or is this telling you to adopt some of these qualities in order to see what is what in your life?

Ace of Cups is a new beginning in the area of love and romance. It can also be a new beginning in a new vision or a new spiritual awakening. Cups belong to the element of water and they are mainly to do with our emotions and matters of the heart. Aces are new beginnings, almost like a gift from heaven, as we see this cup in the picture being supported by a hand through the clouds.  This new beginning may not necessarily involve someone new; it may even mean a new beginning within you and the way one looks at one’s own emotions. But, above all, this is a new beginning where the heart may flutter and cause a stir


I hope the above three cards resonated with you and hope it gave you some of the answers you were looking for.

Best wishes.
Cedars

Thank you so much Cedars for the time and the efford you´ve put down in the reading! The two persons you describe do exist and are very close to me and your descriptions of them are more or less spot on. I also look forward to see what the Ace of Cups have in store for me! I´ll take in your reading, ground and reflect over it. It surley will give me more insight due to my situation! Thank you yet again and bless you!
Best regards / Veralisa

Thank you Veralisa (what a beautiful name) and I hope you settle down in yourself and continue your life and let all be revealed.

Best wishes.