Hello again Cedars,

Though it doesn't seem like it, almost a month has passed since my last request for a reading...I'm back again for your sage advice!

What do you see for me in the area of Love and Relationships? We've touched upon this topic before...I do my best to reach out to those women I'm interested in, but usually they do not respond as I would like. I have a profile on a couple of dating sites, but the ones that are most eager to speak to me are the ones I'm not interested in. How can I break this cycle? I'm doing my best to bring down the thick walls that surround me, and also to raise my vibrational frequency so that I can manifest my desired reality.

At this time, I'm just looking for a nice female companion for casual dating, as I'm not ready for anything serious at this time... a "special friend" if you will...just want to attract a compatible woman of like mind

Your advice is most appreciated.

Horus1123

Hi Horus

You ask me what I see in the cards on love and relationship.

If I were to take the route of a friendly discussion and steer away from a predictive type of reading, I feel you will not be satisfied and you would want me to go to the mystical route and pick cards and tell you what they show, even if it happens to be ‘bad’ news. Yes, we have tackled this topic before my friend and I am not in the habit of going back and looking at previous readings.
The situation you describe about yourself being a member of dating sites and the people that come in your path are not what you are looking for and those you are interested in do not connect with you. This is something that happens to all of us all the time! It has happened to me and I am sure it will happen to the next person and the next and the next.

Why does this happen, Horus? I have no magical answers. I am not even going to say, Oh, because you are doing this or that wrong  I do, however, believe in the following: do what you think you should and let it go.... or let go... don’t press too hard... don’t push too hard... don’t search too hard... May be even cancel those dating profiles you have created and go about life and forget women for a while. Do not visit those dating sites for a while or as frequently and when you do visit, just look at it on the surface and don’t go too deep into it.  Just throw everything to the wind, to destiny, to the Universe and forget for a while. Try not to be conscious that you are doing this in order to test the ‘system’; you must feel what you are doing rather than going through the motions. There comes a time when we get tired of trying and give up or give in..... I feel perhaps you are not there yet.

When we search too much I believe we stop what would otherwise be coming to us naturally. I believe strongly in that. Let the Universe deliver. Is there anything else you can do if it doesn’t? No.

I did pick three cards for you and asked the question: What does Horus need to know about his search for love and relationship?

I got: Temperance. The Sun. The World.

Wow, three major Arcana cards all giving their unique and strong message.
The Temperance is telling me that first and foremost you need healing, i.e. in desperate need of moderation than those extremes that you have been the victim of. You need to find a perspective in this search of yours,  free yourself from the burning feeling of desperation and just find an inner peace. The Temperance card shows an angel (or the archangel) standing one foot in a stream of water, the other one on a piece of rock mixing water from one golden cup into the other. There are daffodils on one side and a long path through green pastures leading to the sun. He is trying to find a balance and equilibrium in our mental, emotional and spiritual state by blending the water from one cup into the other. During the blending process the impurities are being driven away and pure, drinkable water is what is being left in the cups. There is the need for restraint and self control and the Temperance is there to deliver that to you but you have to be willing to take it too. It is telling you to let go and find inner peace first and foremost. Once you find that balance and, indeed, healing of mind, body and soul, only then you can be ready to greet what may be coming your way.
The next two cards do actually mean that: The Sun and the World.

I am not saying and not going to say these two cards mean a lover or a relationship. The Sun is the result of Temperance whereby it promises a new lease of life, happiness, warmth and a childlike sense of freedom to feel free of issues, worries and concerns, for what does a child have to worry about? The World to me is saying that you will attain what you desire, but first a journey must come to an end, and that journey is the one within yourself preparing you to be ready for the next journey ahead.
I hope these three major Arcana cards gave you the insight that you needed.

Best wishes and just let go...........

Hello again Cedars,

Thank you once again for the very honest and optimistic reading.

These are great cards, and therefore, I should not worry...however, it is very difficult to "let go" completely for as past experience has shown me, it I let go completely and do nothing in the areas that I am struggling, then nothing happens and I spiral downward even further. Perhaps its ok to do what I must, but just remain more emotionally detached from the outcome...after all, that is also a form of letting go.

If you look at every potential new contact with a ring on their hand, then that can be so counter productive and also may lead to disappointments, unless you've developed a very thick skin.  Perhaps your way may be good for you - be there, but let it not dominate you emotionally -- easier said than done though.

Please give the healing effects of Temperance its fair chance in order to get to the Sun and the World my friend.

Live life for yourself as well.... do not reserve it all for whoever might walk in to your life