hello cedars,

                i've been waiting 4 da month 2 pass, so i can get help 4m u in regard to my love life n possible chances of marriage....y love life is also as bleak as da rest of da things in my life, rite nw : ((

I wud b really grateful if u cud plz get a reading 4me 2 better guide me on dese lines, too!!

thanking you!!

Hello ad ju

I feel somewhat sad that you have been waiting for a month to get a reading about love and marriage. This tells me how dependent or desperate you have become on readings. I would not like to ‘predict’ as to when one would meet a lover and get married and so on....
Whilst I appreciate and sympathise with you that things are not going as well as you would want to in your life, but sometimes perhaps we need to change our mindset and our routine to shake up things a little bit and hence allow those changes to come through.  We all fall in the doldrums of losing faith in what may come forth into our lives and that can have a snow ball effect in delaying things even further.

I would ask you: what are you doing in order to attract someone into your life? Are you mixing with the right crowds? Are you socialising with friends and, indeed, family? Are you looking at the possibilities at internet dating, or simply making new friends? I know from experience that once we give up on a certain situation, we do not make any effort and expect things just to happen. Whilst I am a believer in chance meetings, and out-of-the-blue encounters, but then again, we need to create those opportunities if we want love to come and find us. This is not a criticism as to what you are or not doing to bring about these changes into your life.

I will ask a simple question for your reading: What can Ad ju do to bring about love or companion into his life?

Universal Rider Waite.

The High Priestess.The Lovers. Nine of Cups.
Two major Arcana cards here, which tell me, first, that you need to go within yourself and start probing and do some soul searching as to what you have been doing and what has been going wrong with them. The answers to  your question lie within you Adju and the High Priestess is saying go within and look for them for they are there and you know they are there. Look at the things you have been doing, look at them under a different light and see what you have been doing wrong and what you have been doing right. Just take and combine these steps and perhaps you need to change your outlook at this situation and start finding your own answers. All the answers lie within our own soul and despite our desire to wish to hear from an outside source, the High Priestess will not deliver them unless we go within.  Once we go within and find the answers and, indeed, the secret that is only visible to us and yet we may not be able to accept it, then only then the doors may start opening and a Love or something towards which we may feel strongly (whether in a romantic way or whether a life change which we may embrace) or the love towards our own self hence leading us to a state of attainment (Nine of Cups) and giving us the sense of fulfilment and having it all. Our wish can come true, once we accept ourselves, love ourselves and lo and behold the gates of love, friendships, companionship will be opening in front of us. The choice is first for you to accept to yourself where you have been going wrong and do that much-needed soul searching.
This is no looking into a crystal ball and seeing if there is a prince or a princess waiting by the door. The choice is yours to make it happen and I will also admit that the journey in finding out and getting into terms about yourself may not be so pleasant, but it will bring about the necessary changes for you 1) to love yourself  and 2) be ready to embrace someone else into your life.

These are what the cards came up with. Sorry, it did not show a bride or a bridegroom as you might have been anticipating, but it did show all the major possibilities for you to start exploring yourself within your own soul to find that love, romance or even that companion which may start giving to your life in a way that you thought was not possible.
I hope this made sense to you my friend.

All I can say to you is sometimes it is good to get out of our shells and try something new.

Best wishes.

thanx cedars 4 ur reply...n ya life wud have been soo easy if u wud had shown a person waiting for me!!!

but u r rite in pointing out dat sumtyms a change in ones lyf is only brought about by changing urself...so i guess i'll have to really work on myself to attract da rite person....

really appreciate ur advice n guidance...thanx a lot, cedars!

Regards

You are welcome adju and God bless.

dear Cedars,

hope u doin fine?!?...da last time i was here, i took ur kind advice n reading regarding my career n love life....

Although, things seem to have settled a lot in da work area, but still i get lil misgivings about da job im at....please if u cud kindly guide me, if its da rite path im on?? n whether sticking to it is da rite thing to do....coz at times, certain things dont seem rite, but in da longer run, they turn out beneficial for u....n besides, an experience, whether gud or bad is infact a learning experience....

on love life, im still drawing a blanck : (( last u mentioned of online socializing....but im more of a traditional one, and feel uncomfortable...n besides, if i do indulge...it would not cum naturally to me: (....plz if u cud also guide me in is regard?? whether i'll have sum luck,there??as u mentioned last time, dat sumtimes v have to shake things up, ourselves!

i really value ur readings n advice!

Regards