I have recently met this guy, who has proposed marriage to me. I'm not so sure about him.  My questions are -

1) Are we compatible?
2) Is he an honest and trustworthy guy?
3) Will I have a happily married life with him?

Would be happy to receive your reading.

Regards
Jyoti

Who do you think can tell you these things except you, yourself?

As for having a happy married life......... your guess is anyone's guess.
Sorry, the last statement sounds harsh, but who can tell you if you will have a happy, married life? No one! Not even the cards.

Are you compatible? Who best to tell than the first person who is dealing with this guy - i.e. You!  What do you think so far about your compatibility? You are asking things that you, yourself know or should know by now. If you dont, then there is something wrong in your interaction with this guy or things have not progressed enough to talk marriage.

Is he honest and trustworthy? Again, my dear, what have you felt so far from your interaction/relationship with this guy? Or, has he proposed marriage after a short while from meeting you? Then, if that is the case, I would step back and extend the courting or the engagement period, as it is only you will be able to answer these questions and not 100% at that. We never know someone even if we spend a lifetime with them. Am I exaggerating? Perhaps. But there is some truth to the notion that we never know someone 100% and I believe in that.

There are no magical answers. It is trial and error with an element of logic, love and compromise on both sides. How much of each of these are you willing to offer and how much is he willing to give?

I insist: if the proposal for marriage is premature in your gut feeling (otherwise you wouldnt ask these questions) then I suggest you put it gently to him that you could do with getting to know each other better: it is your life and it is your right.

All the best.

Thanks Cedars.

We met formally after receiving a marriage proposal for each other. After one meeting with me he proposed marriage. I did tell him that i need some time to know him better. We do talk over the phone. He pretends to be too busy to play the dating game.. thats why i got a little worried.  thanks anyways.

regards
Jyoti

Hi,

Og, you are Leo!!! So easily lead by the nose. I'm also Leo and I think I know myself and the rules we Leo's play by. I give advice to others but let me tell you, find myself in some funny and akward situations at times as relationships are concerned.

Flattery and attention is one of the main strings people pull with us and our holder-ste-bolder nature, being naieve etc. gets us running for the money.

If he is not wanting the mating or dating game, then you just wait for six months or longer.

Enjoy your spot in the light!

Blessed be

This may be part of your culture to marry after a first meeting and so on...... I have seen them....  But.....it is your right to have some time to know the guy you are going to marry. Not the cards, not the psychics can give you that answers.  If he is too busy to play the dating game, then the choice is yours what you want to do with him.

Are you actually engaged to him?

Good luck to you.