I have read your intro, and your request here in Tarot section.
I do not act as Tarot Reader, so other have to provide you with such, but I will only give some of my thoughts on" take it or leave it" basic.
Your situation is sadly common for many who seeks advice about love and directions in life.
One have entered a state where we feel stuck, and our "enterprise" slows down to almost a halt, and this again will interfere with our "love" life or why it is missing.
If we go on like this, we can seldom hope for any improvement in any field, and we might even go into a Negative state of mind, which only will accelerate our "decay".
In hope to change this pattern is there only one possibility.... To start working with oneself.....You are the only one who can change you....
You need to change your thought pattern ....there is thought pattern therapy or courses available...and even if they cost some money..it is your own future you are investing in.
You need to put up goals....first you must try honestly to find your strong and weak sides...then see what you are doing today...is it valuable...or can I improve it by taking some added education..or change work if opportunity is present..you are still "fairly young"....but you have few years left before you aren't that "hot" in the marked any more.
You must focus on a Positive outlook...this goes on thought pattern as well as actions....Positivity attracts people....Positivity open up for "chances" Positivity even open up for Relationships that might grow into a lasting marriage.
We as humans create our life as we go....our life is not something finish made...so from this we must acknowledge that You are the most important person in Your life...you have the steering wheel ...it is YOUR task to steer through all the obstacles life throw against You...to find the best path....to see where your forces is...to lead so you get most out of your own abilities.
Today you might feel like you are parked on the side field, and feel all are racing "away" from you...there is only one remedy....get behind the wheel and start moving again
Well well....it is not done in a hurry....but if you realize it...if you do it...I think your life will improve a lot......even your love life
