Dear Cedars

You may remember me from awhile back. I was made redundant in my last job (2 months ago) and sadly, it looks as though it is about to happen in my new job. I work in a very horrible workplace (unethical with people that I would go as far to say are mentally unhinged/sadists).

However, it was VERY difficult for me to find this job as I have to earn over a certain amount to afford my mortgage - hence why I have stayed despite how dysfunctional it is
The reason I am worried for my job is that I have been asked to look for someone doing the exact same job as I am, which to me suggests I am about to lose my job. I am otherwise happy with my life for the first and only time in 27 years.

This is because I have had a difficult background (abuse, continued loss etc and had negative patterns which I thought had died down) - however I am worried that I am going to experience loss etc again.

Please can you let me know what the cards show for the very near future?

Thanks so much in advance - a response today would be VERY VERY much appreciated.

Coco,

'Redundant' in the UK means (or should mean) when your job is no longer valid, required, or the position is redundant which means they cannot bring in someone else to do a job which technically does not exist. By your employer asking you to train someone else to do the same job as yours does not indicate to me that your job or position is going to be made redundant. On the contrary, perhaps there is demand for your type of position and another hand is necessary. Would that be the case?
Why do you think you will lose your job? They cannot do that if they have not given you any reason for dissatisfaction with your performance.
Have you asked them why you are to train this new person?

My dear Coco, I am not touching the cards at this stage, but why would you assume that because of your past or 'background' that you feel you have some kind of a negative pattern over your life which is not going away?

 What reason do you have or feel within that this could be what your employer is trying to do?

Let us not make haste and go to the cards for a predictive answer. MY personal advice to you my friend would be to wait and see what the company's plans are and ask your immediate supervisor (if you are still worried) why would you need to train another person doing the same job as yours?

Just calm down and do not panic when there is no valid reason for it. Besides, panicking would not solve a thing at this stage as you said you need this job. Before we seek answers from other sources, let us seek the answers from our own environment i.e. your workplace.

Would you do that, please?

Blessings to you.

I would not make a hasty presumption without good reason. My employer dimisses people at the drop of hat stemmming from exatly this scenario. I have not been asked to train someone - i have been asked to find a direct replacement. Also, having have had previous readings on the site (years ago under a different alias) - the cards picked up that my life breeds negative patterns. Hence why i made all of the aforementioned suggestions. As metnioned, my employer is not straightforward, that is why asking whyy i am being replaced is futile.It is not problem if you do not wish to do a reading , however I felt it important to clarify.
Thanks

I agree with Cedars...there is no need for cards on your question, and if you allow me, then please take some of my thoughts on take it or leave it basic.

I don't know you...I might be wrong....but what I write is what I get when I read your post.

You are a fairly young person, and I think you might have some problems with insecurity, due to earlier abuse , which I think can be a seed for Negativity.

I think you will have a great benefit by starting to work with yourself.....to learn meditation....to learn that it is not important that we succeed all the time....that other people aren't just here to please me...but that they have their own feelings, and way to act.

It seems to me that you "draw" negative images from your surroundings, and this will project Negativity back to your fellow employees, which will be picked up by the supervisor, and which again can lead to vacancy.

When we look at our surroundings with a Negative attitude, then we experience it just like you tell, because we can only see the negative, we swamp it up, and we always take everything in the blackest way, and we become an easy object for being "the black thing" the one who destroy the milieu.

Again...I am not saying this is You....I am just telling my thoughts, and as owner of a firm, I have experienced them more then once.

It is ok to be laid off from work once, but when one start to be unsure after short time in the next job, and describe fellow workers like you do, then an alarm bell start to ring for me.

Hopefully I am wrong, but I am quiet sure that you will have great benefits from starting to work with yourself...to try to remove most Negative thoughts from your head...to look for positive approaches to your problem...to look for the good in people...to avoid such description of fellow workers because your brain swamp it up...and your attitude will then mirror them.

Hopefully will you manage to keep your job, and in time like this that is very important.

Good luck.

With respect, and if that is your employer's ultimate aim (to get rid of you) why bother and find that replacement??? Why not let them do their dirty work?



And you base your life on a reading you have had years ago? Why in the world would you be so dependent on someone's reading that your life breeds negative patterns. You yourself may breed negative thoughts, but your life has got nothing to do with it, if I may say so. I think you have become far too dependent on these readings and you are basing your life on every word that a reader tells you about your own life? PLEASE STOP THIS RIGHT NOW!

You may have a negative frame of mind and hence you see the world around you (as Rhuto said) all bleak and against you. That may not be the case or the truth in actual life, but you would see it that way and, in fact, invite that negativity into your life.

All the best to you with your current job.