So I have a trip to Italy planned for my 30th bday next year. And I'm super excited and wish I was there already! Anything in the cards about it being a eye opening experience?

I do not understand it Marlena.
Here you have a chance to visit Italy next year... Not next month or next week, but next year, and you are wondering already if you would move there permanentaly or find romance or have an eye-opening experience? Why not enjoy the whole experience without wishing to know in advance all those questions you have in mind? Why spoil the element of surprise and spontaneity?

Would the tarot answer such questions? I am really not sure and not going to try. If a reader told you that it will not be a good experience and you will not find romance, would you cancel your trip to Italy? I bet you're not.

Enjoy the privilege and the experience of visiting a country such as Italy without any preconceived (or shall I say predicted) ideas of what it may be like..

Blessings to you.

What I meant was: is it a good idea to wait until next summer to go? I keep feeling like I should go there earlier in the year.

Marlena,

No one can tell you what to do, not even the cards. And if and when someone does tell you do this or do that, you would then ask 'why'? You see? It then becomes vicious circle.

You have just changed your question.....   You cannot do that either when asking a question for a reading. Many here come and say, Oh, well, I did not mean that, I meant this.....

I sense there is more to your going to Italy than you are letting out, but whatever it is, the decision should be yours.

I am not going to do an extended reading or a Choices reading for you. I just picked a card for you: The Ten of Wands.

Someone carrying a heavy load all on his own and heading to his destination. He is almost there, but the burden is heavy and he insists on carrying it on his own. He does not look back and he can hardly see his destination, but he knows where is heading to. This is a lonesome struggle to attain something. It has not been easy so far, but there is light at the end of the tunnel. This is your struggle, your project, your passion and your desire and you will have to do it on your own. No one can guaranty you the outcome, but whatever the case may be, you are that much closer to seeing an outcome to your hard work.

I hope this made some sense to you.

Best wishes.

The "seed" to any love affair or lasting Relationship stay inside ourself.

In order to make it happen, we must plant the seed and nourish it by frequent those places where we think we might meet people we would like to learn more....we must be open...we must be relaxed....and in fact...no so much seek the right one in specific, because only after one have been together for some time one can discover the real person behind the image.

We are flooded in all Reading forum on the same question....when will love come to me?
It is clear that many struggle a bit with this, and many times it is due to the fear to be rejected, or again be hurt by a love not returned.

Well, Life is like a beautiful Rose, it has splendid flowers, but the stalk has many thorns, so also life.

Life comes with no guarantees, it comes with no "dummy", and it is NOT PRE MADE, if it was, then it was just to sit back and wait for what was made to happen...what a dull life....NO we have to create it as we go.

Let me tell a TRUE story, I have told it here before, and might be one of the causes we don't like to do this kind of Readings.

My wife has a friend, who is in her early 70, and who have lost her husband years ago.

Early 2-3 years ago she approached one of these tent with a "psychic" woman, and her cards.

She asked the same question as many of you....will I meet a new man....and when?

Yes, was the answer...You will meet him on a bus in October this year.

Ohhh....she was so happy, and each time she came on visit this was brought forward. She did not go to other places where she could meet other people ...she was so focused on October.

October came, and she travelled for a lot of money on different buses .....but of course no PRINCE was discovered.

We can say she has some happy thoughts for around 6 months, but at the same time she lost the will to look for a partner,

When the time came, she might have made herself an Image of the Prince....she awaited that something should happen...but of course it seldom does.

So we try to enlighten our members about this.....it would in fact be much easier to give a standard Reading...telling that Yes..you will find a partner...yes you will be happy...yes...yes..

BUT!! this is in my opinion not the way to give real advices....those is that we ourself are the clue to any happiness...that we must be Positive....have a good outlook....and then we attract people that like such thing....and then we might find real happiness

This is written in general way....because it goes on a lot of people, and I hope some of you will take it to heart

Good luck