Hi ...... Wondering if you can tell me when things will get better... feeling very stressed and cant sleep at times. . Everything is fine with my immediate family except stress for my Husband for his job...
Am I going to be able to help him by starting my career/business  anytime soon as I want to but right now busy taking care of 2 little children. Our Marriage is Happy and couldn't be luckier.
Lot more issues outside the house dealing with friends. Will that get resolved. I have been back stabbed so many times . Should we move as I am in an area where there is 95 percent of one culture and I am not from that part so people seem not to accept me as well as I like to ...I have been so nice bending over backwards ... I am used to having tons of Friends around me all the time but not so lately ...

Thanks
Anu

The only way I can see it become better is IF you yourself start to work with yourself.

You must learn to relax, learn to not carry to much burden...learn to accept those thing you can't change...and learn to change those thing you can.

You say your marriage is happy....GOOD!!! this is a very good starting point...
But when you stress about his Job, then you also stress him...
The fact that you stress him will not make his boss to let him keep his job...in fact it might rather lead to him loosing the job because he is not in an harmonic state of mind.
If we make a Negative milieu around us, then we burn our own Energies, and makes people avoid us because they can "see or hear" our negative approach to thing.
Therefore it will always be hard to keep friends and job...and if he loose his job...it will be harder for a person who aren't in equilibrium to get a new one....so Positivity is very important!  

You say you live in a neighborhood where 95% is from other cultures then you.
You have 2 options....stay..or move.
I assume you can't move....so then the option is to stay.
Since you can't change those 95% you have to start with yourself....there is a lot of good peoples in any culture...it is just to open our mind for it...to not be scare of it...to try to make friends.
Try to visit "activity groups"....try to come in touch with persons you believe you will like....give all a smile...and soon you will see many smiles back.

Start to trust yourself, and trust your Husband...always look for the Positive Approach....and you will manage most situation in life with ease, if we go around scare we will never achieve happiness, because there is always new thing to be scare from, and we only dig our self down.

Good luck!

Hi Anu

Rhutobello has given you the  best 'reading'  and everything he says is of value.

I have seen your postings here on serveral previous occasions (in different forums) and they have always been around the same topic. Have you noticed that getting readings does not change things? It is you who has the ability to change things and accept those that cannot be changed. I dont want to repeat what Rhuto has already said, but having seen your previous reading requests, I see that you get one encouraging reading and then you come back and the situaton is the same but in a different area of your life.

YOU WORRY FAR TOO MUCH. I dont know what country you live in, but I get the feeling it is South Asia and ther are many, many modalities for relaxation and destressing methods within your reach such as massage, meditation, head massage, yoga, Reiki............ try some of these and rest your mind and perhpas you will start seeing things differently.

And for God's sake stop taking the burden of the whole world on your shoulders.

All the best.

Thanks alot for your reading and insight ! I really do appreciate it !

I know I have posted the same issue regarding friends in the past probaly I have posted again as I have tried and gone out of my way and embraced the culture learned the language and everything and still feel like the odd one out and while growing up never had this problem and friends r important to me !

I was just wondering if my career would take off this year..... I never have stressed out my Husband more then he is regarding work but just listened and yes worry alot but I keep everything inside of me which is bad !
My Husband job is not in trouble as such he is just going higher up in his position and there is alot of work on his head.... wish I could help out now in some way..... will try to see what my options are

I will as you advised try not to worry tooo much as I tend to worry alot ........

Thank you again !
Very Helpful and insightful and the best advice ever !


Take Care
Anu