yeah, i noticed the board as been slow lately so i would guess you request was overlooked or maybe i know some folk don't like doing "love readings" but your request seem simple enough.  my guess is it might have been missed it.  i would have did the reading for you.  i am glad someone offered you a reading.  
also you asked "Also, How does one 'fine-tune' our sensitivities?" practice, practice, and more practice.  i am using the tarot to practice with and i make a point to try to listen to myself more when i have that certain feeling telling me something about something.
good luck with all