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Posts: 2799 · Posted: Mon Mar 29, 2010 5:12 pm

Hi Holborn

This is your private message that you asked me to publish in the main forum.

Here are my comments... (not a reading though).

Quote:

Dear Cedars

You may remember me from about a month ago- you very kindly did a reading for me. I have trouble posting on the main site as my PC is very old and bugs when I try to post, so I had to go to the internet cafe last time.
I was wondering if I could ask you for another reading if not too much trouble and another favour in asking you to post it in the tarot reading forum on my behalf?
Please can you email me back to let me know if this is not possible and I will go to the internet cafe and post there. I am just not feeling well at the moment and staying within the flat so as to not over exert myself by travelling to the cafe- hence why I have asked such a massive favour.

If the reading is not too much trouble - my query is " Will i be in a lasting romantic relationship soon and will the pattern of poor treatment of me by friends and lovers in my life cease at any point soon?". I have seen the changes that you mentioned, but the positive things have not been consistent. So the query is more concerned with whether the changes that you read (and came true) were just 'postive flashes in the pan' or whether they are positive changes that will continue to grow - certain things aren't making sense to me at the moment as things suddenly and abruptly changed and looked promising and now have gone back to how they were I know the question is similar to my last one - but the above gives the background and reason to the similarity in phrasing. Dont worry - I won't and don't take readings litreally.

If you do post the query in inverted commas in the tarot forum , please can you email me back so I know it is there.Thank you so much in advance and sorry for so many demands.

Thanks so much again

First of all, you are becoming far too dependent on readings my friend. Your last reading was in February and I do not believe that is enough time to let things unfold. You are being far too impatient in seeing results and therefore are delaying the results as well.

I do not know if the positive things were 'flashes in the pan' as you put it. If they were flashes in the pan, have you given enough time or effort to make them longer lasting......?

Holborn, you are asking two different questions:
One- your interaction and difficulties with friends. If one has such problems with friends, are they friends worth enough keeping? What kind of friend(s) would treat another friend the way you say they treat you? Dump them and get rid of them for goodness sake! Why do you cling on to them? For fear of being lonely? You are already lonely with their treatment of you; so what would change if you cut your ties with them?

Second: you ask if there will be a romantic relationship for you in the near future? Who knows my friend? Your very desire to be in a relationship is the problem itself, if you allow me to say it. Why don't you have a relationship with YOURSELF? Love yourself FIRST before you expect anyone else to love you. My feeling is you have a problem in that area, whilst thinking that a new love would change everything. No it won't, believe me it wont. It is your desperation that is being conveyed to your lovers and that very same desperation is driving them away.

If I or someone else gave you a reading (which I wouldn't like to at such short gap) and if new beginnings did show up in your reading by way of romance and so on... what makes you sure you wont sit and wait for that to happen and then after a month or two you will come back and ask for another reading because the reading did not materialise? Or that the 'promised' romance was a flash in the pan?

My friend, I think you should rid yourself from this desire of being in a relationship until such time you embrace yourself for who you are. Dont chase love; it will come to you when you are ready. That is probably the reason why your past lovers have not treated you well.

You have a gentle and a loving soul and for you to attract the right person, I feel, first and foremost, you must re-shape your life. Get rid of your useless friends, spend time on your own, go places alone and re-discover yourself. Make new friends, but don't expect love and romance from the first person who comes into your path.

Please work at your own future my friend.

Hugs to you.