to Cedars :

thanks for your advice and friendly hugs, btw i'm not in a school, we are co-workers in a company, and the hardest part for me to forget about her is i must interact with her everyday, and i can't leave from this company because i need a job and for me i't hard to find a new company who want to hire me. This is the second time that happened to me, the first time i just quit from my job without saying anything about my feeling and it takes me a year just to find a new job, and when i find a new job it started all over again, falling in love with the wrong person and in the wrong time, but i don't want to runaway again like the first time, but i don't know if i can handle this feeling. i don't want to ignore her but i can't face her either, that is the hardest part. well maybe if tried to see her just as friend nothing less nothing more maybe it will work. well thank's for your guidance, and support.


best regards,

very

Very

I believe you are learning.... some hard lessons about being a mature, responsible person.... all at the expense of your feelings my friend.
Yes, you should not leave this job or any job  for that matter when the person you feel strongly for is out of reach.

My very best wishees to you.