Hello!

I really need a reading on the following questions:
Will Bill or Tom be the person I spend the rest of my life with?
When will we meet and where?(Is there something I have to do/know)
What can stand in the way for a relationship with one of them?
My makeup artist career: What can I expect and will I have a job after the eduaction has ended?
My life in general, what is going on?

My name is Gabriella, born 1989 11th of august, they are born 1st of september 1989, you who chooses to do the readings is free to change the questions if it makes you more comfortable.
The reason to why I´m asking these questions is because I just can´t stand the thoúght of having to search even more for the "one", my life has been hell for almost 17 years now and I need some stability.


ANyone intersted?

Hi Bella, I won't be doing a reading, because what you ask from the tarot (and imo life) cannot be answered in the way you want it to be answered. But I will respond to a part of your post. This post is well intended from the bottom of my heart and how I have learned to deal with life and love over the past 36 years.

I am not sure whether there exists something like the "one" in reality. There might be "many" who fit us better depending on who we are in different stages of our life, depending on what you need and want in your life. You might already have met one of the "ones" and yet it might have been the wrong time.

Secondly, I'm sorry that for you life has been hell for the 17 of your 20 young years. And yet despite that you cannot expect someone else to bring stability in your life. If you want stability, then you will have to create it for yourself. Love and sharing parts or all of your life with someone is not something that includes stability, unless both partners have it. Two people differ from one another, they have to learn to co-exist, and that is not a stable process. Meanwhile, if either one of them is a stabile personality, and you are not yet, a pairing will more likely destabilize him than stabilize you. Life is what you make it, not what they make it for you. Stability will be found by finding peace within yourself and your life as it is, regardless of the fact that neither you nor your life is perfect. Demanding from life to provide you the "one" in your life RIGHT NOW because you're fed up reveals that you anything but peace.

Lastly, in my experience to make demands on life out of malcontent tends to backfire in some way.


Personally, I think you are looking outside of you what you ought to look for within.

I cannot understand why you have to SEARCH for the One! I reallycan't.
Whether it is Tom, Dick or Harry, when the time is right, he will be revealed to you and you to him. Even then, no one can guaranty a perfect union or one which is trouble-free.

When you approached me privately for this reading, I just could not see myself giving you a reading based on the type of questions you had put forward and, alas, when you published it here, you multiplied the questions... All these When's and If's do not get answered by the Tarot cards (or by any other divination method in my opinion). You yourself are in a way complicating your life with all these thoughts, not to mention 'worries'.

I cannot understand: if there is a Bill or Tom available to you, why not interact with both of them, live your life, go along with the experience of your feelings, mature within your own self (you are only 20) and see the development that takes place within you. It could be that you yourself may see that it is neither Bill nor Tom the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Why ask us?

On another score, finish your education first and then start worrying about your job prospects.

I feel you are jumping a few steps ahead, as if wishing to conquer areas that you are not privy to as yet. You have to let life unfold. We cannot (and if you ask me, should not) aspire to have all the answers.

So what if you had all the answers in advance?

Good luck to you and enjoy life more than anything.

Hi Bella,

You have posted your question to most readers as well as on PM's. We don't have differing requirements as far as doing a reading is concerned. We hae guidelines we follow. Unfortunately your questions are those, we will not attempt to answer.

Hopefully you may find someone else to do a reading for you. At this stage I absolutely don't do readings at all.

Good luck in your quest!

Blessed be.

Bella,

Here's an anology to life that may be helpful. It is comparable to a road trip without a disclosed destination. You get dropped off somewhere randomly with a stick car. YOu don't have a map, nobody tells you where you're supposed to go. So, first you learn how to drive a stick and you manage to acquire a map of the area. Along the way you set some goals for yourself: you wanna go there, and there. You pick up the hitchhikers you choose along the way. And one of those hitchhikers might end up joining your road trip until the end. And sometimes the car breaks down and needs repairing.
You may end up looking and wishing for easy highways that will get you from point A to B in no time, but unfortunately life is from a time before quick highways. There are no highways. And while it might seem you're supposed to go somehwere and focus on that somewhere, the sole mission is to be on the road all the time, so you better enjoy the scenery along the way.

All the best