Hello Cedars ,
Hope you are doing ok ? Following the reading that you gave me  last december , things have changed quite a bit . I think that I have freed myself from the devil. I made list of everything I want in a man . I feel good about myself and love myself in spite of the mistakes ..I just want to be happy.There's still the dissatisfaction at work . I know I deserve a better job and hope to manifest one in the near future. My social life is pretty inexistant . I have had no success in making new friends with like-minded people. I still feel the sadness and emptiness even when I am not really thinking of love or willing to find someone. The result is that I end up feeling defensive and guarded and I find myself not really able to let people into my life ..Hope you can shed some light on my current situation . Thanks in advance

Hello Jlo

Please forgive me for my late response.



Hmmmmm, I wonder if it is a reading that you need or just an interaction with someone.

I am glad you have been successful in ridding yourself from the effects of the Devil per your last reading.
.  Do you really want to handle your future friend or partner-to-be in such a business-like manner? Don’t get me wrong. It is wise to make that mental note within yourself as to who may tick those boxes, the boxes of compatibility if you like; but at the same time no one comes so perfect out of a package my dear.

Your dissatisfaction at work will not change unless you do something about it. Either look for another job or a move within the same job. I would, however, hasten to warn you in these times of unemployment and economic crisis, to think twice about leaving your job without the security of another one. We all do jobs – sometimes – we don’t like or don’t feel satisfied, but then again we have reasons to stick by and see to it until a better one comes along or we go out and look for another one to suit us. You are doing the positive thing to work towards ‘manifesting’ that ideal job you. Good luck.

Social life, love and romance. . And why should you force yourself to find someone? You are not doing anything wrong if you don’t want to find someone my dear friend. As to your feeling defensive and being guarded about potential people coming into your life, hmmmmm, are you looking back at the past and fear that the same patterns might happen again? I don’t blame you for feeling that way, but we need to take some chances too.  I would say  1) look to making friends rather than that someone special. Smaller steps at a time. Don’t complicate your life with that big ideal of MR RIGHT… Look for the Mr Friend or Miss Friend… and don’t pre-define or pre-determine in which slot that new person would fit in. Believe me, if he/she is right for friendship, then follow your instinct and the same in the case of love and romance.

I will pick three cards for you: One for your Spiritual life, One for your Job and career and One for Friendships/Romance.

I am not going to go by a specific spread as you have three criteria you want to look at and we should really handle one topic at a time.

Let us see what the cards have got to say.

Rider Waite.

1. Your Spirit. Seven of Swords.
This does not necessarily refer to your intuition or your psychic abilities; we are trying to see where you are at in your inner world, in your spiritual identity.
The Seven of Swords shows a man carrying five swords and making haste to disappear from the scene whilst leaving two behind. It is as if ‘cut your losses and make do with what you have’. In your case though I get the feeling that you wish to leave behind what possible fun and frolics life could offer and run away to be on your own. You almost wish to take away what you can for now from life’s offering and not bother asking too much even if, knowingly, you leave a few bits behind. You are doing this being aware that what lies behind are some of the colourful and the fun aspects of life.
You know what’s out there and yet you seem to be running away and find happiness and contentment with what you have. There is no right or wrong about this; I feel this is your current state of mind, feelings and attitude – which I call your inner Spirit.


2. Job and Career. Three of Cups.
There is a reason or they may be a reason to celebrate with friends and colleagues about something. This is the card of celebrations, social encounters and letting your hair down for a bit of fun. How poignant that this was not under your friendships/romance section! I am getting a strong feeling that this is you to celebrate what you have in your job and career side of life. As you said the way you are putting it forward to the Universe to manifest a better work environment for you, I feel you should also be grateful enough to celebrate what you have and have a bit of fund too. We all need some fun in our life and you go and get it.


3. Friendships/Romance: Page of Swords.
A court card and of the element of Air. A youngster or an adult of a young energy who comes across (and sometimes is) a bit immature and has his head up in the sky. He has a sharp mind and is good with figures and science; he may have answers to problems that may seem difficult to solve. He loves to talk and express himself. A friend, a new acquaintance or a lover who may be challenging and may even test your endurance and your limits. His energy is what you might need to get you out of your current state of despondency on the social front.


I hope the above three aspects meant something for you, Jlo and once again I apologise for my late response.

With blessings to you.

Hello Cedars, that's absolutely alright I think I needed to let my feelings out and also some insight ;) Yes no more obsessed about my age and being single. I don't I made this list to be sure of the qualities I am looking for ..In the past, I wasn't really sure and got hurt . I know that he'll have flaws and I'll have to do with it.

I'm not happy at my job.I'd like more responsibilities because I have the skills and qualifications required. You are right though that in this economic crisis, it's not wise to quit a job . I would never do that . I'll stick around till I find something better in the future. I'm visualizing the type of job I'd like and hope to attract it.

It's really too much pressure thinking of going out and looking to find someone. I'd feel more self-conscious than I am.Yes I don't want past patterns to repeat themselves . Whenever I tried to take a chance , it hasn't been pleasant and I got hurt. So I think twice before letting people into my life. I need to find joy in my present life and having a new friend would be great. I still haven't been able to find a good reason why I need to to find Mr Right yet ,apart from the obvious reasons of romance .Still trying to figure this out lol.









I have the tendency of preferring to be on my own rather than being surrounded by too many people. I feel safer and more in control.I'd rather make sure that I don't get hurt.I accept things as they are.I know I miss out lots of fun at times but it's a choice I make. I enjoy the good times I can have my myself .


No reason yet but hope a possible promotion becomes that reason :D Maybe things will start improving at work and I'll start enjoying myself a bit.I need to be grateful that I have a job even if it's not my dream one yet . I have financial security and getting the opportunity to learn .



I would love to meet someone like that . Even it's a he or a she , I need a friend who I can trust and to go out and have fun. Even if it's not mr right yet , I need to have a social life.I need someone like that right now just to talk and see life through different eyes. Keeping my fingers crossed , I meet such a person soon



Thanks a lot cedars It's very helpful and hope things start looking good for me soon .

Love & Light,
Jlo

That was a very sweet response Jlo. Thank you. I think you are on the right track.
Send out those messages and dont think about them.
Live your life to the best of your ability.

God bless.