thanks

Sorry....but we don't do such readings....because no one can really tell.

A relationship always build on a mutual trust.
If one start to doubt ones partner, then I think the relationship has come to an end, even if there have been none unfaithfulness from the other partner.

When the seed has enter your brain, then it is like weed, and you will give your partner many questions or remarks that will destroy the partnership.

If you can't trust him...then leave him for his own good, or for the good for you both.....first when a relationship is ended, one can open up for a new one, that might build on mutual respect and trust.

Good luck.

You could not have had a better advice than the one you have had from Rhutobello.

Confront him, ask him - the only way to find out.
If your instincts still say the opposite, then the choice is yours.

leogrl,

while agreeing with the above statements, I noticed a few expressions you used in your request, which led me to think that so far you've been "seeing" a man for a month, dated with him, but haven't had any "exclusivity" conversation. You don't call it a relationship yourself. And it seems you are scared to start the topic (afraid it will blow him off?), and instead prefer to have cards analyse the man you're dating.

I have come to understand dating in a way that as long as nobody initiated the exclusivity conversation, then it's not excluse dating, and both are free to accept dates with other people. Also, in my experience, men quickly indicate whether they want to stay open for the market or want to be exclusive (certainly men in their 30s). But your choice to come here over it, indicates that this talk has not happened, and/or you were afraid in a way that signals him not to be clear to you.

You will have to have that talk, because if you cannot talk with the man you're dating, then you can't talk with an exclusive partner either.

Good luck!