hi everyone,

is it possible to get a reading about love life??? I'm a 34 years old female (sagittarius), and i would like to ask about my love life.

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Hi Droiched,

I've chosen a spread called "What's going on" with the simple question "what is and will be going on in your love life". I used my Corwley Toth cards.


4 3 _ 9 8
_ _ 5 _ _ 10
1 2 _ 6 7

1 & 2: What is going on now, including things you may not be aware of - the STAR and HANGED MAN
3 & 4: Upcoming events that influence, lead to the outcome - 5 of WANDS and PRINCE OF DISKS
5: where your love life is headed - 6 of SWORDS
6 & 7: What you can expect - ACE of DISKS and PRINCESS OF DISKS
8 & 9: How you can change it (if you don't like it) - PRINCESS OF SWORDS and 3 of DISKS
10: overall outcome - EMPEROR

I will explain the reading in the edit of this post.

1& 2: What is going on now, including things you may not be aware of - the STAR and HANGED MAN

The Star(a Major Arcana card) shows you are going through a growth phase where you are gaining cosmic understanding, how your life works, how your love life works, and it is giving you a sense of hope for the future. It is as if you have been cleansed from the past, and instead looking towards the future with hope and positive expectations. It is possible some meeting or event pushed you into this personal growth phase, but all in all I think if this was so it majorly served its point, to get you to this point of hope. I suspect that it is this positive general feeling is what prompted the querry here.

The Hanged Man is a figure that can gain great inspiration, going through a harsh ritual, but for a while he's immobile. All he can do is hang, and think and see the world upside down (out of the box) to come to deeper understanding.

If I consider the two cards togther as what is going on right now, I get the sense that you've felt like your love life has been stuck in a rut, and you were unnable to change it, nor understand it (Hanged Man). Eventually you just gave in to the immobile situation, and now you've reached the heady point of seeing hope and positivity where you could not before, even though the factual situation has not outwardly changed. The change has occurred within.

3 & 4: Upcoming events that influence, lead to the outcome - 5 of WANDS and PRINCE OF DISKS

The 5 of wands is called strife, pointing to competition for competion's sake and arguments for the thrill of it. Some chaotic, conflicting times are ahead, but they will give you life vigour and thrill you. It lies straight above the Hanged Man, and would indicate its opposite when seen in the light of life energy and mobility. Where life seemed to be at a standstill for a long while, it seems that soon a lot of things will happen at once, confusing on the one hand, invigouring at the other hand and giving you the energy to move forward again.

The Prince of Disks represents an atmosphere coming into your life that will keep you very busy and which will require your long term determination. It may come in the form of a young man, but not necessarily.

I have the impression it's the Prince of Disks atmosphere that is the cause of the 5 of wands' new energy.

5: where your love life is heading - 6 of SWORDS

The 6 of Swords tells me that all of the previous will open you up to explore previously unknown love territories, tactics... you will be trying new things, because you will feel curious to investigate ideas, theories about your love life and love life in general. You will go through this experimenting with a mindset like that of a scientist almost: what happens if you do this, accept that, go there, put on these clothes, act like this and then that way...

6 & 7: What you can expect - ACE of DISKS and PRINCESS OF DISKS

Aces are opportunities, given to you from the outside... The Ace of Disks talks about a material chance to something lasting. With the 6 of swords before this, I suspect that while you're enjoying your little love life experiments you will meet an opportunity you can trust to be a real possibility for lasting love. Take heed, it will be just a seed, but it is a true opportunity, not hot air (disks are about groundedness, reality, material).

The Princesses, like the aces, represent opportunities in life, but with that difference that it is born from the inside. On Crowley's Princess of disks we see a young pregnant woman looking into a well, like a pagan priestess. She's inquiring life, mother earth to learn, a student of life, but she's also pregnant with ideas and faith.

It is very nice to see both in this position: a realistic opportunity from the outside, and at the same time from within. You will have grown in your understanding so much that you can recognize and create your own love opportunities, and of course that's when you will meet them too.

8 & 9: How you can change it (if you don't like it) - PRINCESS OF SWORDS and 3 of DISKS

If you do not like the Ace and Princess of Disks, which I very much doubt, then the alternative path would be to rebel like the Princess of Swords against your discoveries, against the past, against the immobility of the Hanged Man's phase. The Princess of Swords fights and is defensive against accusations. The opportunity for the Princess of Swords lies in the truth told during such attacks.

The 3 of disks is called Works, and in this case I would almost take it literary.. if you don't like the path outlined before you, then the cards advize you to throw yourself on your work and build a stable life that way.

I personally see no reason why you would go the route of these two cards.

10: overall outcome - EMPEROR

The Emperor is a Major Arcana card that reveals that the overal outcome will lead to creating structure in your life, you taking responsibility over your own life (not just your love life, but it will be a part of it) by creating your own life how you want and need it to be, and to a sober, realistic view on life.

All the best to you!

SSR

Thank you so much for such a complete reading. I will have to go through it again to completely understand every word, but I can say u are probably right. I had a very bad phase after a bad breakup, and last year was a year full of self discovery, lot of thoughts, and I have grown a lot. Although I still feel stuck (my life is like that), I dont have that same feeling inside of me. And the last month I have been very close to a workmate, who has also change my views regarding love and life.
The problem is that although there is mutual attraction, I dont know why we can´t step out and move the relationship outside work.
But..well, ur reading was very positive, so ...thanks so much!!!

Hmmm, sometimes you can be interested in someone and they in you, but because you come from serious healing the atmosphere might just not have that freedom and space to allow for more physicical interaction. That's what the 6 of swords is to inject: some experimenting with flirting for experiment's sake and the fun of it, without there needing to happen anything or needing to grow into something serious. Exactly this will give you and any man you interact with the breathing space to be spontaneous, which will be a more suitable atmosphere to actually have something happen.

In a way, you're going through a mini version of being a teen again. Remember when you were a teen with a crush without having yet established a playful interaction with the crush. For most teen girls this never grows into a relationship with the crush, because even if they communicate with the guy, it leaves no room to improvize, no room for play for either two. Not saying this is a crush, but it is one of the first attractions since your heavy break-up, and you have to rediscover that playful flirting again before discovering anything else. And that is why it cannot move outside work yet.

Thanks so much for your clear and refreshing words.  You described the situation really well. Thats exactly how I feel...like a teenager. Its a very nice relationship. Even everybody at work thinks that we are a couple. The thing is that he has been also long time without a relationship after a break up, and I guess for him it has also been like living again something so precious.
The thing is that after so long flirting every single day, I really feel like he is the person i want in my life, but I cant make this going further and i dont know if it will and that is killing me!!!