Hi I'm new here.  I was wondering if any of you could give me a general reading giving some insight  on what may be in store for me in the coming few months.

thanks and looking forward to the reading.

ps: i'm 32 yr old woman.  

anyone willing to give me a reading  

This is something that just occured to me now

If not a general reading, could i ask for a reading that shows how i come across to people in general or to the opposite sex. Not, to sound shallow and vain at all..I have very good reasons to ask this.
I am a very unapproachable person. always have been this way. Lately I feel this particular attitude of mine has actually helped, if not completely, still has helped keep unwanted attention away from me, which is a good thing for a single woman not always searching for a man. Of course i want to be with a man but someone really worthy and i'm sure i will know when i find one.
I'm not attractive or any way appealing in either my looks or personality. I'm just average. But, we all know how this society is, if a woman is single at age 32, they think she is desperate and try to hit on her.
My question is can we know through tarot how i come across. am i giving off this impression that im looking around and easily available so thats why they try to hit on me or is it the nature of men ..to hit on single woman. LOL
Sometimes I'm concerned, that maybe i'm giving this impression and thus inviting unwanted attention. Like i said, I'm not attractive at all so i don't understand the reason for the attention.
I wish i met someone worthy of my attention, It will be so nice.

if you've read my rambling and think you can help me through tarot, please help.

LOL... personally  I never experienced being in my thirties and single as the other sex thinking I'm desperate (not single anymore now though). What I did experience is that the other sex appreciated my self assertiveness, my confidence and "life experience" I carry in my attitude, which for some reason a lot of men think sexy and feminine. I learned to see such attention as a compliment, not an insult. In the process I accepted the attention but held off involvement, and my negation was always cordially accepted by men without resentment.



I'd say it's in most men's nature to hit on women (you can drop the "single" there). Flirting can be fun by itself. Men don't always expect they will succeed. But when they see a woman they like, they give a go at showing her. If the woman says yes that's an extra bonus, if not, it was still nice to make the acquaintance. It's even quite possible that in combination with self confidence and self acceptance your "pickiness" or enjoyment of being single, is making you attractive in men's eyes. People (women and men I find) like a challenge. More, your attitude of "I'm not interested" might make it safe for men to exercise/train their flirting skills with you.  

Well, maybe men should answer you these questions, but that's how I learned to see flirtations, based on what men told me.

And a complaint I've heard from many women is that men are all over them when they're not interested, but nowhere around when they want a man.



So, do you want to know how to repel men, or do you wish to know how to attract the right guy for you?

I'll do a reading for you tomorrow, when I know more clear which of the two things you want...

you seem to have an amazing personality. it is only natural for both men and women to admire someone who has such a lovely personality. Not all women have these qualities, you see.
I'm very average, there is nothing attractive either in my personality or in my looks. Thats why i wonder what this attention could be. Admiration is very flattering,  sexual advances.. are not. I don't know if every advance is sexual or not...i'm not sure. i may be imagining things too..btw, i'm not sexy either.

At first i only wanted a reading to have an idea of what is in store for me in the coming months. as for the other question, i have always wondered how i'm percieved by others,and yesterday was one of those days...since i was already on this board asking for a reading, i thought i might also try asking this. i'm not sure about what i really want to know. i shouldn't be worried about how i'm percieved by these men. but, i would like to know how i'm perceeved in general, by everyone. again, not something i should worry so much..but its always good to know.

Yeah, i'd definitely like to attract the right guy. unfortunately i haven't met one..
There is no one interesting in my social circle. I will have to look outside my social circle...thats a lot of work. i'm lazy.
well, actually i'm very shy and reserved and also very conservative both in my dressing and in my values. I'm very stylish though..

If you can address all these concerns in your reading, that will be extremely helpful. If all of them can't be addressed in one reading, you may chose any one issue to give me a reading.

Many thanks.