Hi Cory

I wouldn't call it Cold, I would prefer to call it Realistic.

As readers, sometimes we have to tell the querent to take control of their life rather than rely on readings, no matter how comforting they may seem at the time. When something like this becomes an obsession, then I can guaranty you the querent will come back asking the same question over and over again.....

What would you do? Give readings every time and send them back? Readings can be comforting, but they should not take the role of a placebo effect.
Sometimes as querents and as beings of this world, we need to take charge of our life in different ways than a having a reading.

That's all I was trying to say. Sorry you felt it was 'cold' and I do certainly apologise to Anu if she took it that way too.

Even the most loving mother would scold her child sometimes.  That is still Love for me.

Blessings to all.

Sometimes over thinking and over obsessing over things brings it to the fore front of your mind and manifests it into reality. We really need to be careful what and how we think of things. We can be subconsciously bringing things on ourselves. Although fears are very real and if having dealt with them alone hasnt helped eased them then some professional help may be in order.