Dear Lambtail, if so many of us think the same without needing to do any readings, why can't you? Obviously because you have feelings, but who for? Is the person you love real or just the image you have made of him?

I think the 'red flags' Saboinia was getting may be about the part I quoted from your post. I cannot imagine anyone who truly cared for your well being getting angry because you have important things tying you to your present abode. In fact, anger is a very big, ugly and red flag in my books when you have hardly met a person. I mean, the stage you are in, we usually stay in our best behavior to put across the best possible image of ourselves. What to think of someone who cannot hold his temper even from a distance?

I have a hot temper myself, but if there is someone with whom I badly try to keep it in check, that is my partner in life. I try as hard as I can never to hurt the person I love the most, since I couldn't stand losing him. Even when I am caught off balance and give a sharp retort, I am quick to apologize because I care so much I might have hurt him.

Oops, I just realized this is an old thread bumped up. You never answered, but I hope things ended for the best