Hello all

I wonder if any readers have the time to give me a reading on my relationship life please. I'm single, I do quite like a man but not sure what his situation is or if he even notices me. As the summer is beginning in full flow and its the half way point of the year I thought it would be a good time to have a look at what the rest of the year holds for me in my love life.

I would really appreciate a reading but do understand if people are busy, and hope I'm not being too presumptious asking.

Many thanks

Indiangirl,

I will be happy to give you a reading.
I will get back to you soon.

1st July, 2009

Hello Indiangirl

I first tried to connect with you psychically and got the following:
The way I see you is that you have been in Waiting Mode or in the waiting game with regard to meeting men or potential spouse. It is almost like being on a platform waiting for the train to come. Trains have come and gone by, but you either did not like them or did not feel any connection with them – metaphorically speaking. I just feel that you have been going through the processes of looking, searching and waiting… With this guy that you have asked us about, I am trying to see this situation through you, as this is a reading for you and not him. Whilst the site rules do not allow us to make third party readings, but in a relationship situation, it will be a little bit difficult to be one-sided. So, I will break the rules and may I be forgiven for doing so.

You, yourself, I feel are two minded about this guy. Is he? Is he not? Is he the one, or isn’t he the one? Yes, you are attracted to him but you do wonder sometimes if this attraction is due to the fact that you need to have someone in your life, or if it is pure attraction in the true sense of the word. The train of this guy, so to speak, is not far from the station. It is just there but it is neither passing by nor coming to make a stop at the platform. I feel that it is all to do with you than this person. If you want him, perhaps you get closer to the train yourself, because it is not moving or going away. I feel perhaps you should make some overtures towards him. Whether this guy is shy or has got confidence issues, I do not know. He is there, in your radar, and is responding in subtle ways. I get the feeling that probably he needs to be led on and guided towards you.

You want to be happy, run around and holding hands with a man. I understand that feeling and you deserve it too. We all deserve it. But I feel probably in the past you may have met the wrong people, or acted a bit impulsively towards people who were not suitable for you or did not match your ideals or even your temperament.

This guy is not revealing much to me. All I get is a sense of shyness, sensitivity, lack of confidence perhaps even some kind of insecurity about him.  I feel he needs a guiding hand to bring him forward.

Would you be willing to do that?

Now let’s see what the cards show.

The question I am going to ask is: What are Indiangirl’s options for the rest of the year? What should she expect in the love department?
Let us see how the cards will respond. They may respond to one question or both or come up with something different.

I am using the Horseshoe Spread with the Rider Waite deck.

While I was shuffling the cards, the Queen of Cards flew out and I immediately sensed this to be your energy: strong mind, charismatic, successful in your work environment, you like the finer things in life and you work had to get them. A fiery personality, full of passion and energy towards life.

The Past.
Nine of Wands. Element of Fire.
A man holding a wand with eight more standing behind him. The eight wands behind him represent his past work, his efforts to attain and be complete. But the path has not been an easy one; has seen a lot of hard work, a failure here and there, ups and downs, and got hurt in the process and will not suffer fools gladly. He is full of passion and the past ‘injuries’ and hardships have brought him to this present stage of self-reliance.

The Immediate Present.
Four of Cups. Element of Water.
A state of being resigned to your current situation, although unwillingly. There is an element of depression surrounding you with regard to the present and you don’t know which is the best option for you. Whilst I do not believe you lack anything of material value, you do, however, feel unfulfilled and unhappy about other areas in your life. You wonder what it would be like if………or if that….. As the Cup suit represents emotions and matters related to finer sentiments, I would derive to the conclusion that you are unhappy in your current state of love life…… or possibly the lack of it?

The Immediate Future.
Ace of Pentacles. Element of Earth.
New beginnings are on your way in the area of finance, material abundance, possibly a new job or a prospect concerning your career. This is a gift from heaven by way of a Coin coming through the clouds for you to work with and pave the way for further successes in the acquisition of material and earthly comfort. Of course, it is up to you take or leave these opportunities, but the gift will be there for you to make full use of it.

Something Occupying the Querent’s Mind.
The Fool. Major Arcana.
There is the unknown or a mystery that you would like to find out for yourself, even if this would mean taking some risks. The Fool can be sometimes foolhardy and takes risks without considering the consequences. But don’t we all do that at some stage in our life…?
Do you go off and try it on or do you stand back and let things come to you? Do you want to open a new page in your life – come what may – as neither of us are 100% sure of the outcome of any new step we take, or do you just stay put? Thoughts like this are at the forefront of your thoughts and probably the only way to find out would be – like the Fool – to take that step on your own.

The Attitudes of Others.
The Star. Major Arcana.
If the attitudes and thoughts of other people around you mean so much to you, then it is one of hope and encouragement. Your surrounding may have seen your struggle and also can see your aspiration(s) and will be giving you encouragement and a positive push to go forward.

An Obstacle.
Four of Pentacles. Element of Earth.
Sitting and waiting? Being a miser? Not investing or not willing to expend your energies, personal resources and even your hard earned money? Are there good reasons for this type of behaviour so much so that it becomes an obstacle? You decide. Didn’t we say that you have been in Waiting Mode above? This is almost the same mood while this man stays put and does not spend any of his money, turns his back to the world and waits until things get better to go out and have some fun. Crudely speaking, this card is also known as the Miser Card. As to which aspect of your life you are being a so-called ‘miser’ or unadventurous, I am sure it must ring a bell.

The Final Outcome.
Seven of Pentacles. Element of Earth.
Another form of waiting but this time, waiting for the fruits of your efforts, investments and hard work to pay dividends. You can actually see the results of your hard work; it is just that attainment which is not yours yet. Hard work always pays dividends and you will get yours in good time. This is a wise man, he shows no regret for the efforts he has put for a certain cause and knows in his heart that he will reap the benefits quite soon.

It is up to you how you handle this waiting position. You could try and find a fine balance between your physical and spiritual sides and indulge in some form of self healing and find equilibrium in your soul. You know you have put the right efforts and have faith that you will enjoy their outcome soon.

I hope this reading has shed some light on your questions and, even if it did not answer the burning question in your mind, I hope it has shown you a different perspective for your way ahead.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Best wishes and blessings to you.

Correction... correction...


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I meant to type The Queen of Wands.

sorry.
cedars