I am new to this forum.

Please help me.....i am in pathetic condition, no one get this type of tragedy in their life, really God cursed me.

I lost my beloved wife and my Baby boy on the same day after the delivery on may 13th 2009.

Why it is happening to me only, i am not able to concentrate on any thing, i left the job also and i lost every thing, i lost interest on the life also.

Even my child wood also not that much smooth........

I lost my father in my 7th year and mother in 18th year.

after many struggles i did my Post Graduation and doing nice job.

In the job also, up and downs and no consistency .......

My siblings also not co-operating with me.

by seeing all these, i want to know is anything wrong in my Horoscope or in my wife's Horoscope ?

My Birth details:
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Date of Birth: 27-08-1976
Time of Birth: 00:15 AM
Place of Birth: Chirala, Andhrapradesh, INDIA.
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Longitudes : 15 57 12.891 N
Latitudes: 80 17 26.1276 E


My Wife's Birth details:
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Date of Birth: 10-12-1984
Time of Birth: 21:30 PM
Place of Birth: Guntur, Andhrapradesh, INDIA.



Please give me your analysis and suggestions, awaiting for your reply....


Thanks & Regards

My dear boy,

Yes, you have had a trying time!! To loose your spouse and child!! Nobody can sympathise, unless they have gone through that kind of test or heartache!! I lost my life partner very suddenly, he was shot and killed. The pain will never go away, especially not in a few months, no, no.

Do you know, it's normal that, now, you can't focus on anything really, have you any idea what you are experiencing? I don't think you can even imagine for this to be a "curse" from God.

Please remeber, all of us, has to cross-over. When this happens, it's not easy for those left behind! But when we do, it's not a matter of you being abandoned, not at all. Think that those who do cross-over, and are ourselves, are then going to be the star looking over you, for the rest of your life. Why don't you then look up tonight at the stars, and see that there are millions looking over you!! One day, your own child will do the same, knowing that you are in the heavens!

You lost your parents at an early age, so have many other. Don't isolate yourself, please you are a wonderfull young person, and has a great life ahead.

For now, just "idle" a bit? Take everyday as it comes. How many sunrises are there not in the rest of your life? As for your siblings. You are walking this road, be brave and take the bull by the horns, i don't think they are insensitive, they do feel your pain, but maybe they are not in the position to do anything?

Your job is absolutely so imporatnt to you, the only consistancy will come from you! Finish your articles, get done with it. Keep this as focus, without that how, can you support or hope to build a new life?

Why don't you have a chat to Ganesha and Mother Kali, do you not think that they can give you better guidance than us mere men?

Please remeber, we are all of spirit, and in spirit, we are united?

Blessed be

Your story is sad, but not unique.

We all feel with you, we all hope you again are able to find the positive in life.

To be in a negative state of mind only eat you up from inside, and I don't think any of your love ones wish such a thing for you.

You posted the same request in 24 forums, I hope it was your despair that was cause in it, but it took me more work to remove it, then for you to post it.

The only way you now can go forward is to concentrate about those you love and are alive.

By carry the negative state of mind you will loose family, friends and job, all will feel sorry for you, but to stay together with you will only burn themselves out.

Be aware that Death are as natural as Birth, those who go away don't suffer anymore, and I am sure they don't want you to suffer either, it is only our self pity that is allowed to ruin our life.

Because of you "spamming action" is your ID closed down, but if you need more help (and will post a request) then just register again and put a number back your name (cvaonline1) and you are again a member.

Hope you will manage this sad period, but everything depend on you, nothing else, God has not Cursed you, everything is just the course of life, and death always comes to early.