I recently met a man who I had been conversing with online. I was awe struck with his looks and temperament. Next he tells me that he no longer wants an intimate relationship.
I would like to address the question of Is it worth pursuing?
I appreciate your time and effort in responding to me.
I am Jane, born 28 Mar 1963 at 2:21 am INglewood CA.
He is Eric, born 9 Jan 1960, sometime in the morning, Downey CA.
WE both live in the San Fran Bay Area currently.
Thank you kindly.

Hi Jane

The immediate gut instinct I got after I read your posting was a No!
I also felt this guy likes to be admired and he is a bit of an attention seeker. It is as though he got his fix from you and now he may be on to someone else.

I could not make any further link with Eric. As this reading is for you, I will now concentrate on you Jane.

I picked some cards for you from the Rider Waite deck.

Where do you stand at present?

The Empress. Eight of Cups. Nine of Wands.

It feels to me you are ready to nurture, love and be the ideal woman with all the maternal and feminine instincts, fully ‘ripened’ and ready. But I see you turning your back to a situation and looking ahead to newer horizons. You are taking this step with an element of courage, seeking new pastures while at times being ambivalent about your decision. That is expected and you should not be hard on yourself for only brave men and women take such steps and yours is no different, as is shown in the Nine of Wands that you take no nonsense from anyone. You protect your interests and your own integrity in a stead fasted way and you would not let anyone come near you.

Where do you go from here?

Nine of Swords. Seven of Swords. Ace of Pentacles.

I sense by looking at these cards that you have been unfairly taken advantage of – possibly by this man? You are hurt and disappointed once you realise that what was said or has been impressed upon you, was not true. However, there is a new beginning coming to you, Jane. This is either a new job, a new financial situation being presented to you or even a new path that will guide you to better things for the future. This new beginning may not have been revealed to you, but it is in the making and should bring you material comfort as well as a new vision for the future.

While I’ve been punching on the keyboard, I could not help get the feeling that this man has probably got some growing up to do.
What does your instinct say Jane?
Do you feel you should pursue this?

Our readings are meaningless if your gut instinct says the opposite.

Bless you my friend and let me know if this resonated with you.

Cedars

Dear Cedars,
It is funny because as several days have passed, I might be able to view events in new ways.
I love that you believe something new should be coming my way, and if I am strong and steadfast and "good", it can be positively altering. I think all men take advantage of me, I am too giving, and I need to step back and consider the effect this generates.
I am almost certain that I will be quite whole without this man in my life, it is disappointing of course, because I wanted to see him as my hero but he has muddy feet. And then I am disappointed that I will never find anyone to satisifactorially share my life with, but it certainly is way worse to consider spending any time at all trying to mold the wrong person.
You give you the ability to breathe in and out and relax, and trust in myself still.. Ok, so it didn't work out, but I don't lose, I gain more confidence to be able to "let some things come to me".
Thanks! A million times, thanks, I feel better somehow.
Love! and Huggs!
Jane

Hello Jane

Thank you for you feedback my dear friend.


Whoever said that you will never find anyone? Chin up, please, and ask the universe to send you the ONE that is deserving of your nurturing nature and your love.

No more talk of 'never'!

Hugs to you and best wishes.