Hello Happi

We have to communicate in the public forum and whilst I have not quoted the entire content of your recent private message to me, I am quoting the last paragraph and would like to share it along in the open forum. I hope you don’t consider this as invasion of your privacy as I have not quoted the entire content of your private message to me.


In my humble opinion, tarot readings do not cover a life time. The longest they might cover is the next six months or so. There may be very powerful psychics or clairvoyants who may foresee a whole lifetime; I do not in the way I read my cards. And, let me correct, the tarot cards do not predict the future; they give you guidance as to how to approach the future and the choices that may be available to you. It is still up to you whether you choose to take or reject the advice given. Your free will is your birthright, your divine right if you want to call it. No matter what a reading or a reader tells you, you still have the RIGHT to choose as you please and ignore the reading completely. Whoever said a reader was God almighty? Now, if you are going to base every step that you walk, every decision that you make on different readings given to you, then you will not live life at your own free will; you will simply be enslaved to every reader’s opinion and you will totally be lost!

Happi, I cannot contradict nor am I ready to give you another reading to prove or disprove the contents of the previous reading you have had. You are basing your life FAR too much on these readings and soon you will lose your path and, to be bluntly honest with you, it puts the integrity of your union with this lady – your wife – under such doubt that you might as well forget this whole marriage thing and get on with your life being a 23 year old man. I feel something must have driven you to have these reading(s) and that something I sense is a discontentment surrounding your current situation. If you feel doubtful about it, if you are not comfortable with the current state of affairs, then you should seriously consider freeing yourselves – BOTH – from this situation and both get on with your lives separately.

My answer is: I do not know if a second or a third reading will give you the same result or a totally and completely different result than the one you have already had. You are free to have a second or a third reading and then decide for yourself if you so strongly believe in them. If all the readings gave the same answer, then you are once again free to take it or leave it. Neither I nor any of my friends here can or should tell you what to do.

As to which of the outcomes of your multiple readings you should follow is again up to you. I CANNOT tell you what to do. Did you ask anyone when you got married to this woman? No! Why do you ask now if she will bring you happiness, children and what would the sex of your children be?
I think you should do some deep soul-searching as to why you need the answers to these questions…..

Best wishes to you and ask God to show you the way.

May you be blessed with light and wisdom.

Cedars

Hi Happi,

Now, please!

We had a chat before, and a "reading", i can't remeber or even have the inclination to search my postings.

In this Board, we are all profesional and please respect us for that. If we weren't, we would not be here, giving readings and guidance to people truly needing that at any point of time.

The best way for you, would be to look at reality and then consider what you want!!    There is no way in hell that any of us will give you any further advice, for what or what not to do.

You are an adult, with a wife, so, be her husband, for God's sake. Whether you will have children, in the first correspondance, i told you, that it's entirely up to you and your partner, Please, we can't direct your family planning?

As for me, I truly don't even want to think that you could base your life on Tarot. Tarot is a very intricate and enlightening process or methodoligy.

True enlightenment will come to you from God, and will obviously speak to your "Higher Self"-- do some reading on the ladder of the self. Carl Jung may also give you some guidance in his work.

Blessed be