Hello I'm new and never made a request before. Is it ok to ask you direct Cedars for a reading - I like the style of your answers to other people.

I'm in my thirties and am single and just want to know if anything is going to change in my love life. I'm female and there is a man I am madly attracted to but don't even know if I'm on his radar! Is there any potential with him or anyone else coming up for me? Will it be a bright summer for me ?

Hope to hear from you.

Thank you Claire.
No problem. It will be a privilege to give you a reading.
Please give me a day or two.

Thank you Cedars I wasn't sure if it might have seemed rude to ask you directly, so I really appreciate it.

Dear Claire

It is OK to ask for readings by name; this means, however, that you may not get the reading so quickly. There are other gifted readers on here and I am sure if options are left open, perhaps a quicker reading can be forthcoming. That said, I am pleased to give this reading for you and hope it will resonate with you and give you some clarity.

When I am drawn, I usually try to link in with your name psychically and see what I get about the energies around you. It may not be so easy at times linking in with third parties and, by the rules of this site, we are not strictly speaking allowed to infringe on the privacy of third parties. (I have on occasions broken that rule when the reading concerns a relationship, as it involves two people). In your case I will concentrate more on You rather than this person with whom you feel a connection.

As I tried to link in with you, I saw you sitting patiently, almost resigned to a situation and waiting for things to happen. You know in the background you have this person on your mind, waiting for things to unravel or start being noticed. The energy of this man is not so strong, perhaps because the situation has not been nurtured or steps taken towards it. Having said that, you may think if you are going to make the effort, then it will be one-sided. I am getting these words and feelings that if you don’t try, you will never know what he feels about you. I know it is difficult, but some men cannot or do not express themselves.  He is in your radar, whether it is because you have put him there or whether he is there by default due to your working environment, I am not sure. To put you out of this misery I feel you should make an effort and approach him on a friendly basis and see what the response is going to be. Whatever happens, you will only know then if there can be ANYTHING at all between you two guys. Whilst I still see you sitting and waiting and there is no way I am going to tell you to get up and push this forward, you should do it in your own time as you are lead by your instincts. The message is that, unless there is contact and communication, you will not know what this guy is thinking.

Now let’s see what the cards have got in store around this situation:

Because you are in the dark about a situation (this person) I am going to use the following spread:

Situation: Known and Unknown.

Rider Waite deck.

Situation: The World.
With this card I get the feeling of an end to a cycle and waiting for the next cycle to begin. You have reached a state of completion and attainment in an area in your life and as though you are wholesome ready to embrace the next step that is going to unfold in front of you.

What you do know: Three of Pentacles.
Partnerships, the two becoming three, and this is what you are currently contemplating. Whether this partnership is related to a work situation whereby you are joining hands with others in unison for a particular project, or your inner desire to enter into a partnership of a different kind in your life, that is something you are striving for and very much aware of it too. The three follows the two, after you have made that pledge with another one – work, friendship, relationship…… it is the coming together of the people towards a goal that they work together to attain and achieve.

What you don’t know: The Magician.
Well, Claire, if you don’t know this already, you are a person of many talents, resources and abilities. Even if you do not think so, you have the tools to get what you want by the sheer power of the Magician. However, please take note that is not something that will happen by moving your magic wand and getting what you want. You have choices to make and, whilst you make those choices, you will also need to use whatever resource(s) available to you to get what you want. The Magician is the doer, he promises to deliver but you have to make certain choices. If you thought your situation – in this case in love and romance matters – is unattainable, it may not be so, because it will be achievable; all you have to do is use your gifts and talents wisely.

What you could do (advice): Six of Pentacles.
Be fair and square… as the saying goes. This is a complex card whereby it indicates giver and receiver, giving and receiving. Who gives much and does not get enough and who gets all the time and does not give back. Which category you find yourself in Claire? Whichever one you fall under, my friend, the advice is to find that moderation in giving and receiving. If you give too much of your soul, your energies and of yourself and do not get any back, believe me you will be depleted of all your energies and will not be able to look after yourself. On the other hand, if you are the one who is getting all the time and not giving anything back, there will come a time where your benefactors, your friends and even your loved ones will stop giving.
Sorry this is sounding like a sermon, Claire, but this is how read this card at the best of times.

Outcome: Two of Wands
Choices again. A man looking towards the horizon holding one wand and the other one firmly tied to the wall, thinks ahead and contemplates on his dreams and desires. The choice has been made; he’s got the bug to move on and forward and chase his dreams. It is that choice that may be waiting to be made by you to move ahead in your dreams and desires once decide which way to go.

I hate to leave a reading like this telling you that you need to make choices; I drew three more cards for advice and clarification and I got:
Ten of Pentacles. Queen of Cups and Knight of Pentacles.

We have quite a few Pentacles in this spread Claire. They represent matters of finance and earthly well-being. They are of the Earth element too.
Ten of Pentacles is the attainment of all earthly comforts, financial contentment and a happy co-existence with family.
The Queen of Cups is a mother figure or someone in your life who is loving, attentive, at times quite intuitive and psychic, and will not spare you any emotional support. I see this person to suffer from depression at times too, but that does not mean she is less caring because of that. If this is not a person in your life, perhaps her qualities are telling you something that you should look at and see how they affect your life.
The Knight of Pentacles is a man in your life, or coming into your life, who can be unwavering and yet stubborn at times; he can be very cautious and yet lacks a sense of adventure; he is hardworking and can be grinding; he is a slow mover always looking at details but can be quite obsessive about how he handles situations.
This may as well be a person coming into your life and in a way this is telling you the two sides of that person.
Should this not be a person in your life, please do have a look at your life and see if these qualities apply to you and balance what is serving you best and discard what is not doing you any good.

Claire, I am not sure if this reading gave you the answers to your questions about love and romance, but whatever it did give you, I hope they made sense to you and shown you some clarify.

I look forward to hearing from you, should you have a few free minutes.

Best wishes to you and my blessings too.

Cedars

Hello Cedars thank you for doing this reading and giving me so much detail. It doesn't answer my question about romance but I don't mean that as a criticism. I guess I was hoping you would see a nice romance for me. I feel so ready to commit and have a long term relationship with a decent man but at the moment feel it will never happen. However your reading did make sense to me and your link to me was correct yes I am waiting. I'm very grateful to you for doing reading.

Thanks Claire