hi cedars

it has been a while since i didnt wrote to you..hope you are ok:) and things are well in your life..

here having some confusion and i need your help..recently i have again into my life a guy ( scorpio ) ..its has been one year since i know him..i like him very much and between us there is a strong feeling..but he doesnt makes a choice and starts to build something...he is in shadow always..even if  from this shadow he shows me so much caring and interest than no one before..

i need ur advice cedars in this matter so delicate to me..if i would choose with heart i would choose to run to him ( even if he is in another country and so on ) but if i have to choose with my head..then i will stop where i am..maybe from fear or dunno...this is again my dob 17.06.1977 and i count on ur cards to show me a possible outcome of this friendship..

thank u and have a nice evening
Alina

Hi Alina,

I'm not going to give you any guidance, that you asked Cedars to help you with.

As far as Scorpio people are concerned, my dear girl, you need to know they are secretive. Don't think otherwise. But, also very loyal. The worst part is, that most people think they are earth or fire signs. They are absolutely water signs and live on emotions.

So, your Scorpio mate, may after all be the one you are looking for, let's see?

Blessed be

hi and good morning

thank you for your answer..well yes i know how secretive and how much loyals scorpio can be...he is arround me for about one year..but the entire situation is a bit difficult..and i dunno what to do..i do know one thing..men like him are few..who can be so loyal and show so much caring me..i have never meet someone like him..and this atraction between us is growing day by day..feels like invisible lines unite us more and more..beside this i must admit..he is the only man that gives me peace and a sense of security and protection..strange for me..as am used always to live very independent..

anyway..i dunno what to say and what to do..maybe he is the one i ve been waitting for or..maybe not..but in any case he still remains like the first man who touched my heart in such a deep manner..

regards
alina

Hi Alina

This is an awkward situation and I would not take the route of a reading to give you any positive or negative messages or insights about this guy. All I am concerned is you now.

Is this the same guy with whom you have been communicating in Switzerland? It doesn’t really matter if he is or not. I just remember you mentioning about a guy in a previous communication.

I don’t know much about astrology and I am not going to sing the praises of the traits of his or your zodiac signs These are general attributes and there are always exceptions. So, I would not base your connection with him on zodiac signs and so on.

As to why after a year, this has not progressed into something concrete, beats me. Is it the distance between you two? Have you ever met? Is he commitment shy? Has he got past issues? Has he been hurt before? Have you ever talked (or even sensed) anything about his past, or his inner self – however much he has revealed to you?

As I was writing the above paragraph, The Lovers card came into my vision: choices need to be made.

How long are you willing to sit and wait until he comes forward? Why not ask him where he thinks this ‘connection’ of yours is leading to after a year now?

All I can advise you my dear Alina is to talk to him and if the answer is still as uncertain as the case has been for a year, then you need to make a decision to stick by it or let go. Neither of these situations is going to be easy, but you NEED to know what his view on you two is. Don’t you think?

Sorry I did not go down the route of a reading, as the decision whether to stay or leave should be yours.

Warm hugs to you and please get back to us.

Blessings
Cedars

Hi dear Cedars

Well the guy from Switzerland was so interested in me..that he vanished when i told him i brought the tkts to go to geneva so i lost a bunch of money even because my other friends there suddenly told me have other plans..EVEN IF THEY KNEW I WAS COMING!!!! mah speachless ab this matter..

this guy..is a guy from HR that i meet last year and like i told u before between us there is a very strong connection..i spoked with him and asked him for us to meet this year or simply let it go..because i am tired of this..and he said ofcourse we will meet because he also doesnt has the intention to go on more like this..

i know scorpio are very secretive and very misterious..but in his way he shows himself like a very caring person for me like no other guy before..and in a certain sense i can feel he studies me...very well i have this feeling since i meet him..maybe he was hurt before and he is scared to move forward on this i dunno..or maybe he is a big liar ..dont know either..but i do know this guy gives me a sense of peace and calm inside..strange isnt it?..last night i had a dream..i dreamed him and he wrote on a piece of paper these words...be patient..only if you are patient you will be blessed with many things..i dont know if this dream is about him or the situation..but i do know that this is an answer that i look for..simply to be patient and dont change nothing...

i would appreciate an opinion of your Cedars when u have some time..because ur words have always helped me and guided me..and i do thank you very much for all your help  

have a nice day
alina