Dear Alina,
Please let us leave aside his star sign and this is with all respect to my friend, Payewacker's and your, knowledge on astrology. I do not wish us to make assumptions and even be affected by his star sign for your way forward.
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| his guy..is a guy from HR that i meet last year and like i told u before between us there is a very strong connection..i spoked with him and asked him for us to meet this year or simply let it go..because i am tired of this..and he said of course we will meet because he also doesnt has the intention to go on more like this.. |
This guy is in HR (Human Resources where you work?) and for about a year you have asked him to meet and you have not done so yet, or he has not come forward with it? Okay. When did you ask him and has he done something or anything about it?
What are you both waiting for? What is he waiting for to take you out on a date and a chat and enjoy each other's company?
Forget his star sign my dear Alina; that is irrelevant now. If he is secretive and is keeping something from you, then wouldn't you rather know about it instead of walking in the dark?
Emotions can be intoxicating and can leave us in some state of delirium, but from your inputs I dont think you are that kind of a person. You come across as a realist who wants to get some answers or call it day. Right?
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| ...but in his way he shows himself like a very caring person for me like no other guy before..and in a certain sense i can feel he studies me...very well i have this feeling since i meet him..maybe he was hurt before and he is scared to move forward on this i dunno..or maybe he is a big liar ..dont know either..but i do know this guy gives me a sense of peace and calm inside..strange isnt it?..last night i had a dream..i dreamed him and he wrote on a piece of paper these words...be patient..only if you are patient you will be blessed with many things..i dont know if this dream is about him or the situation..but i do know that this is an answer that i look for..simply to be patient and dont change nothing... |
Oh, dearest Alina, he may be so as you describe him. But........... until when? Until when do you intend to live in this mysterious world with all those qualities about him and yet sit and wait? Patience? What for? Do you know anything about him to give him that patience which he may deserve?
In my opinion, and this is how I would treat it if I were you ( and I insist this is MY opinion only) I would go slow. I would withdraw a bit (or even a lot) and see what his reaction is going to be. This sounds like playing mind games, but it is something perhaps you should do to see how he will react. And then, I think you should confront him that this is not going anywhere or has not shown any potential of going anywhere. You can get on with your life without exerting any of your energies about him or about this situation and let things unfold. But, please, do not burn your energies on him; the less you do that, the more you will see some light about his true self.
You just cannot go into this tunnel indefinitely my dear friend.
The above is my opinion and if I were sitting in front you as a friend, I would still say the same things.
I give you a big hug and hope to hear some good news from your side.
Here is the BIG HUG!
Cedars