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cedars
Tarot reader

Age: 55
Zodiac:
Cancer



Joined: 18 Apr 2007
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Location: United Kingdom
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Dear Alina,

Please let us leave aside his star sign and this is with all respect to my friend, Payewacker's and your, knowledge on astrology. I do not wish us to make assumptions and even be affected by his star sign for your way forward.

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his guy..is a guy from HR that i meet last year and like i told u before between us there is a very strong connection..i spoked with him and asked him for us to meet this year or simply let it go..because i am tired of this..and he said of course we will meet because he also doesnt has the intention to go on more like this..



This guy is in HR (Human Resources where you work?) and for about a year you have asked him to meet and you have not done so yet, or he has not come forward with it? Okay. When did you ask him and has he done something or anything about it?
What are you both waiting for? What is he waiting for to take you out on a date and a chat and enjoy each other's company?
Forget his star sign my dear Alina; that is irrelevant now. If he is secretive and is keeping something from you, then wouldn't you rather know about it instead of walking in the dark?
Emotions can be intoxicating and can leave us in some state of delirium, but from your inputs I dont think you are that kind of a person. You come across as a realist who wants to get some answers or call it day. Right?

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...but in his way he shows himself like a very caring person for me like no other guy before..and in a certain sense i can feel he studies me...very well i have this feeling since i meet him..maybe he was hurt before and he is scared to move forward on this i dunno..or maybe he is a big liar ..dont know either..but i do know this guy gives me a sense of peace and calm inside..strange isnt it?..last night i had a dream..i dreamed him and he wrote on a piece of paper these words...be patient..only if you are patient you will be blessed with many things..i dont know if this dream is about him or the situation..but i do know that this is an answer that i look for..simply to be patient and dont change nothing...


Oh, dearest Alina, he may be so as you describe him. But........... until when? Until when do you intend to live in this mysterious world with all those qualities about him and yet sit and wait? Patience? What for? Do you know anything about him to give him that patience which he may deserve?

In my opinion, and this is how I would treat it if I were you ( and I insist this is MY opinion only) I would go slow. I would withdraw a bit (or even a lot) and see what his reaction is going to be. This sounds like playing mind games, but it is something perhaps you should do to see how he will react. And then, I think you should confront him that this is not going anywhere or has not shown any potential of going anywhere. You can get on with your life without exerting any of your energies about him or about this situation and let things unfold. But, please, do not burn your energies on him; the less you do that, the more you will see some light about his true self.

You just cannot go into this tunnel indefinitely my dear friend.

The above is my opinion and if I were sitting in front you as a friend, I would still say the same things.

I give you a big hug and hope to hear some good news from your side.

Here is the BIG HUG!

Cedars
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hi again :(
alina77


Age: 32
Zodiac:
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Joined: 27 Feb 2009
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my dear Cedars

how much truth is in your words! i count always on your wise advice because i know you are always such a deep thinker..THANK YOU SO MUCH! FOR BEEING YOU

this guy is born in hungary..and he lives in budapest..we lives in us for many many years and he worked as a strategic specialist ( so as you said here he i think he is doing his fav.mind game )..it has been one year since he is arround here..i argued with him many times and many times he comed back searching always for me and always saying he cares for me and he wants us to be together..but these are just words...and not even one time he said he will meet me..or he is doing something towards this..i was the only one who always maked plans for this..maybe because i considered him an interesting person..with a huge intelligence and sense of humor..maybe because of him romantic way of being...sending me so many flowers..gifts ( even if he sustained always that he doesnt has a job and i am even now shocked of those gifts he send it)..he was always near me in every moment of discomfort..like he wanted to create a bubble with he inside in a best light infront of me..mah!!...

yesterday i had a huge argue with him because i told him i wont tolerate this anymore..because i put so much energy on this ( i know i was wrong!!!) and i tried to build something or at least i did my best to create something..but from his side all i got was words..games..jokes..and i am tired of all this..so i decided between me and me to start cutting this chain that he put arround me..step by step i have to do it otherwise i wont live ..and will go on living in this what u called dark tunel of ..........nothing..bubbles and nothing more!

i know and feel he has many secrets to hide and he does this very well..meantime i am .....an honest person..a pure one..without nothing to hide..i am what i am and nothing more...my mistake dear Cedars was that i didnt followed my intuition..my witch nose..who told me to stay away from him..because since i meet him..i had bad dreams ab this guy..in my dreams he was always dirty and always expecting for me to clean him and the place where he was..

anyway in conclusion my dear friend..i will start to breath away from this story..step by step..following my current life in rome..without thinking to much of him or of a possible outcome on this situatio..because if in one year he didnt found the will/courage to make steps forward..i am 100% convinced he will never do this..because for him is ok like this..living in a bubble because on my idea i think he is uncapable to live a normal relationship..and he is hiding behind the screens!

so dont worry...after so many tears alina is back on top ..smiling ..going again in the gym and having fun..my summer has just started!!!...and i intend to have fun with my friends going to all the parties in rome and cultural events...because in the last year..i admit it ..i lost it behind this guy..giving so much energy and hoping so much that..i simply lost myself..

..and maybe this time is not the right time for having someone..its been 3 years that i am single...and better single than with a moron!!!! and is ok..i will go on being single until i will meet a guy who is able to love me and respect me as much as i can do for him...and i know he is there somewhere..

   
have a great day...and hope to give you good notices soon   no more bad news and confusion!!!

LET THE GOOD TIME START...from now

byeeee



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cedars
Tarot reader

Age: 55
Zodiac:
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Joined: 18 Apr 2007
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Location: United Kingdom
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Dear Alina

I am stuck for words here. You said everything that I was sensing and wanting to say about this.

Givers should sometimes withdraw and start giving all their energies to THEMSELEVES. It is not selfish (but so what if it is selfish?). If we dont care for ourselves, then nobody else will.

You confirmed in your own words what I was sensing about this situation.

You live in a wonderful city in Europe. Go out and enjoy your summer and try not to get carried away with men around you. When you get the attention, recieve and enjoy the attention.

Whatever issues this  guy has, it is not your holy duty to sort them out for him.

Enjoy life and enjoy the Roman Summer.

Another BIG hug to you. OK?

Cedars
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