Ok. Let's put this straight.

As readers, we need to be drawn to a querent or the question asked. Connection, linking.....? Call it whatever you like.  The readers have not signed a contract to read for whoever asks a question, although 95% get a reading, because we are all learning here - both readers and beginners alike.

If I have to be totally honest with you (which I now feel I have to) when I first read your post/request, I was put off by it. This is step number One when a reader shys away from a request.

Let me explain why, and this is my own personal opinion and the way your post had an impact on me. It may not have the same impact on others - I am only speaking from my own perspective.

I believe it was the tone of your request; your choice of words and you attitude.

Just read again your original request and after two days your follow up comments...

It went like this......  

 
You 'want' or you would 'please like to have a reading'?

And it does not stop there......


Wow... wow..... wow.....hang on a minute. We dont even know your family and you are asking a third and a fourth party reading which is not allowed by site rules. You are simply putting a request as though we had to give a reading...  (why not include the neighbours and their dog too?). Then you go on defining the type of reading you 'want': for the 'near' and the 'far future'. Rather demanding in detail there, dont you think, considering all who give readings on this board do it out of their own free will and time........ and for free?

And the indignation still goes on.......



Oh, how considerate of you some understanding at last.....

Do you see now why you have not had a response?

Payewacker spoke out first, but believe me my dear Daizyblackrose, he did not influence any of the readers.

Let's move on from here and I am sure you will get a reading once you form a question about yourself.

There are many valuable readers and learners alike here and none should be - in my humble opinion - intimidated to give a reading or be put under any pressure.

I appreciate that you have issues and you would like some answers. Of course you can have a reading and we look forward to doing so in due course as well as receiving your own contribution to this site.

I am sure you have a lot to offer to the rest of us too.

bless you.

Oh my.... I am deeply sorry for being rude & demanding in the way I made my first post out. I was in a panic for my health & well being at the time. And just forgot some of the rules for the form while doing so. Tho I do remember them now. And yeah it was like whoa what am I doing to these people, how cold of me. At the time I thought I had asked nicely, but you all pointed out that I had not. Thank you greatly for that. So how bout I re-ask my question more nicely, if I could?

I guess what I am asking the cards about is my health & where in my life am I to be heading in connection to my health at this point in time.
You know like what problems & or blessing might I need to look out for?  If you would please, I thank you ten fold.

Oh also sometimes what I think in my head sometimes comes out differently when I write or type it down.
So it might sound good in my head, but in the end it might not be so when I write or type it down.
So with this I hope I came across more kindly & not rude or demanding lol.

Hopeful,
daizy

Dear Daizy

Dont take it too hard.

I regret, but I personally dont do health readings and, MOREOVER, site rules dont allow that either.

We are not qualified doctors and it will be irresponsible of us - or any reader - to make comments about a person's health.

You are not having much luck so far, are you Daizy?

Oh yeah....my bad lol. With me not quite feeling on the ball that rule went over my head, sorry bout that. How bout life in general at the moment, what should I be looking out for at this time in my life?  The good, the bad, & the odd lol? Anything that might bring joy into my life or sadness that I need to keep my eyes open for? I leave my questions in your hands. Also I know that one question might be answered over others & not to hope that all will be answered the way I hope them to lol.


Good Luck All,
Daizy (Devona)    =)

Hi Daizy

Let us get on with the job of your reading and see what we get.

I first tried to link in with you to see if there are any messages of what’s going on around you. I never know what’s going to come. I did not get much about your surroundings, but mainly of you and about yourself.

When I tried to link in with you, I got the feeling of someone who has a light hearted energy despite the adversities of life around you. I saw you facing your troubles and your issues in a light hearted way and that is a quality to be envied upon. I just feel that when you see there is something in your life, you accept it as is, if there is nothing else you can do about it, until things change by force of nature. I see you on your own in this path; I am not saying you’re lonely or no family around you; but emotionally, spiritually you are walking this path on your own as though you don’t want to involve others in it. You‘re keeping them away from it either not to hurt them or not to involve them with your issues. Still, I don’t see you unhappy in this situation either. You view the road ahead uncertain, like being in a tunnel and you want to see the light at the end. I just feel that probably you may have to continue this journey for a little while longer whether on your own or with the people around you. I am not getting any feelings whether you should involve others or not (whatever that means to you). You are quite a free spirit from what I sense and I feel you are going to do this on your own.

Let us see now what the cards have got to say. I am using a spread which looks at the energies around you and for the way ahead. I am also using the Rider Waite deck.

You now:
Four of Wands.
It feels to me you are in a state of celebration with family and friends with regard to an outcome which may have to do with the home or with income. It is the bringing home of  the blessings that have befallen upon you to share them with family and your surroundings. A success of some sort which had a history of anticipation and certain choices which were made in the past.

Energies around you – known or unknown to you.
Ten of Pentacles. Nine of Pentacles. Four of Swords.
We have got two earth elements in the Pentacles which signify material and earthly comforts.
The situation around you is one of abundance and financial contentment. This situation does not lead you to complacency though, as the lady in the Nine of Pentacles takes some time off – after having worked hard for it – and gives herself a well-deserved pampering. This lady exudes self-discipline and a sense of independence about her. There comes a time when we know we need to take some time off and enjoy the fruits of our hard work even if it means to indulge in certain luxuries. But then, this is followed by the Four of Swords which is again some time off but not quite like the Nine of Pentacles. I feel by looking at these three cards that outwardly you are going about enjoying certain material comforts, but inwardly I feel you have withdrawn or retreated into your own world assessing situations and waiting to gain personal and spiritual insight to come out again. You do this with such discipline and self-confidence too.

Energies for the way forward – known and unknown to you.
The Sun. Page of Wands. Nine of Cups.
A rebirth of good health and energy, almost like a newborn baby, naked and clean from any of life’s worries and troubles. The sun is shining upon you giving you strength while you gallop along in this new-found feeling of warmth and freedom.  A message of new ideas for a venture in the person of the Page of Wands – fire element and related to the sign of Sagittarius – is coming to you either as a piece of news or as a person with such young energy about him (or her) to give you what feels like the beginnings of a new energy to start something afresh. And, finally, leading to completion is the state of contentment in the Ten of Cups where an innkeeper sits proudly, no care in the world, with ten cups standing upright behind him. This can be in the area of your emotional/family life or in life in general.

I was intrigued to get Nines and Tens in your reading, both indicating completion and attainment with the element of withdrawal in the four of swords. I feel whatever is going on around you, inwardly you have some issues nagging you which by the glorious Sun indicates completion.

I picked three more cards for advice:
The Moon. Ten of Swords. King of Swords.
That element of doubt is visible in the Moon, but you need to be aware that this is a passing phase and you have the Sun to look forward to. The Ten of Swords is like being in that tunnel wanting to see the light whilst at times you may feel all is lost. There is light at the end of the tunnel even as you feel down and sometimes give up hope. The King of Swords is either telling you to acquire some of his outspoken qualities whilst he listens to his mind more than his heart, or is someone in your life who is going to give you that much of strength and support that you may need at this time.


At the end we got there Daizy and I hope this resonated with you and your current situation.

Best wishes and lots of happiness.

Cedars