I've never done this before, so I don't know how much information you need. I'm a girl, 20 years old, born on October 11th 1988 which makes me a Libra. I have a crush on a guy, also 20 years old, born on August 24th, which means he's a Virgo. My name is Martine and his Rupert.

My question is: do I have a future with him?

Anyone?

Hi Martine

I know the burning question in our minds when we are attracted to someone - is there a future for us?

My burning question to you would be: if the cards showed no future for you two, would you just stop seeing this guy? Or, would you crush your feelings and never turn back?  Why would you want to have all the answers from now which, by the way, no one can give you? Life is an ever changing process and if you got the most favourable answer (or a negative one, as the case may be) would you then put all your trust into these answers and never listen to your own intuition? Would you stop then giving life a chance to feel, experience and learn from it?

With all respect, you are still in the stage of ‘having a crush’; you are not in a relationship with Rupert and why, I wonder, you worry yourself at this budding age of 20 to see if there is a future with him or not? Even if you were in a relationship with him, why would you worry about a possible future with him (or anyone else for that matter) rather than enjoy his company, the feelings and emotions that are generated out of this connection (and I might add the pains as well, because they are part of life and our existence on this planet) and carry on with this journey of personal and emotional development?

I would suggest that you wait and see if this crush of yours will develop into a friendship, then a courtship and simply go through the experiences of just BEING. Don’t frighten each other by thoughts and ideas of a ‘future together’ rather than discovering each other and, who knows, before long you might come to the conclusion that , No, there is no future for you two, or, Yes, there may be a future for you two. Even then, unfortunately, life gives no guarantees my dear Martine.

I am sorry if I am painting a tragic picture of life and relationships; far from it. But, truly Martine, you are on the verge of starting a journey with Rupert (or perhaps not). I wonder if he knows of your crush on him. Why not start exploring if he shares those feelings with you and if he can reciprocate them….. and take it from there?

Live life in the present and don’t worry about the future.

Best wishes to you and let us know how you get on.

Blessings
Cedars