Dear Cedar thank you for your patience!!
And for your reading!
Well, I am happy to see your answer as I feel that your answer is very accurate, things are unfolding in the way I want them to, and I haven't done more than pray for a solution. Everyone seems unconfortable now. And looking for conversation.
My intuition tells me this is the time to wash my marriage up from dust, clarify all the old issues, that this is the right time. This is a boring task. I'd rather let things as they are, but it seems I am being called for action.
I am the one who can direct the dialogues and make what needs to be said, said and understood. So I will have to take my place and wait for the best moment to say my piece.
I am very thankful! You are very sweet and helped me a lot.
HUGS!!!
Viv