I would like further clarification on my current life situation. In a previous reading I had asked about a new connection I felt with someone and it proved to be the same person from my past or atleast I was making that association and needed to let go further to get him out of my field.

I now feel that a new person is coming into my energy field and we have been telepathically communicating. I would like confirmation that this is truely a new person as there are differences and some similarities to the previous one but that would be my fears and triggers. If he is a new positive person then does he know me like from my kids school or maybe from somewhere else or do we just have this link and never knew eachother and will meet soon?

I have approached this as a new begining and placed inportance on staying connected to myself and staying balanced. Alot of healing is going on within me. I feel a karmic and soul union with him but work is still needed within myself and with the relationship.

Any information about him and this relationship will be greatly appreciated.

Thank you and blessings

AnaCaro

I need to restate the message above as I have realized that this is not the person I was hoping it to be and this is the second time I make this mistake. I am frusturated with the man and want him to leave. He seems to be obssessed with me and I just want to be free of him. I do hope to find the right person soon and I will wait for him but I feel discouraged and stuck especially physically because I can't connect to anyone without him getting in the way. I need to make a serious shift in consciousness so to not even notice this previous man.

Maybe I need to focus more on my spirituality and psychic gifts more. There is a women who has been helping me but I am skeptical of her. Her sarcasm questions me.

I have been very involved in my sons school with the committees and have taken a very activist stance yet I always get hurt and feel rejected internally and face many fears. I know my ideas are very untraditional and alternative and sometimes too intense but I want to empower myself and not be so afraid so i speak up and really feel like a leader. but is this really helping me?

Having a lack of support and little social contact does not help but maybe it does as I am forced to be independent. If you could help me to put these pieces together that would be great. My fears are deeply ingrained and I do not want to attract many more negative spirits to me. But I know I can repell and release them with the light but encouragment and empowerment are the key for that. Yet I feel that I need to start finding that key within myself and not from others.

Thanks for taking time to do this reading.

AnaCaro

Dear Ana

We've been through the same issues only a month ago in my reading to you in January. Am I right to ask that your telephathy or 'connections' are with real people or spirit? I am getting a bit confused here. Are you having a telepathic connecton with someone you have not met yet? Are you having this in a different vibration than the physical one? I would like to apologise for asking these questions as I wondered for a minute or two if your connection was on the spirtiual realm.

Now, with your second post I gather these are real people coming into your life.
May I put it to you my dear Ana? Why are you in such a dire need to meet people or to have people in your life? Why is there such a panic or even a desperate need to meet these men who end up being the wrong one and also cause you pain?

Why dont you just give up, forget, turn your back to such associations and get on with something else in your life? Forget men for a while, for a year or two.....! Devote yourself to something else; to your children's life, to learning somthing new, to taking part in activities to develop your own mind and hence be completely detached from emotional entanglements. You say you keep on making the same mistake. Perhaps, my dear Ana, you are not ready to take on board such emotional responsiblities and the burden that they bring with them. There is nothing wrong with it; it is just not for you for the time being.

Once you decide that your happiness does not lie in relationships or emotional invovlements with men, then you will begin to love yourself and perhaps in time attract the right men into your life.

No reading will correct this situation my dear friend. The cards will continue giving you the same advice over and over again, but you have to choose if you want to take their advice or continue doing the 'same mistakes' as you put it. I am sorry if this sounds a bit harsh Ana, and it is not meant to be, but you really NEED to be FREE from emotional entanglements for a while and find your own self.

You are right about the repetitive nature of this situation and from what I remember the previous reading focused on a very similar issue and I fear it may continue being so unless you decide to make a huge change in your life. I mean, you willingly and consciously bring in The Tower card into your life of your own free will and desire and change the way you look at life and especially men! Can you find a new pattern or direction to your life to be free for a while, for respite,  and just live for Ana and her children?

I hope you find some answers there for you.

Please let us know and I hope with inputs from here we will be able to give you further help.

Bless you my dear friend.

Cedars

Hi Cedars,

Thanks for your reply and I guess you would only assume that I am not doing the best for me and my children since you do not know my story.

I have been waiting for the right person for over 3 years. When I was married he was very unfaithful and he was not there for me or my children.

Now I am a full time student seeking my masters in social work and I am raising my kids on my own and have almost no support here. That is hard and worth every moment. I also have my spiritual groups I attend every week. Your readings have helped me during difficult times but I really feel misunderstood. That's okay I know I am doing everything I can to complete my degree in a set time and also be there for my kids and grow spiritually. But I will admit I am alone and it gets difficult.

I think what I need right now is some empowerment and motivation to express my feelings positively and find some fulfillment in my life. I was hoping to find some support here but I feel turned down maybe there was an assumption that I am misusing this site. I appreciate what you have done so far for me and I wish you the best.

Blessings to you,

AnaCaro

Dear AnaCaro

I never meant to turn you away from a reading..... All I was trying to do is point out to you not to be so reliant on readings but more on yourself. And, that is why I suggested in my most humble opinion that you give up on men for the moment and concentrate more on yourself and your other interests.  I know what being lonely means and please understand a reading will not show you how to meet the right guy next time he comes around. It is your personal and emotional development that will guide you to do this and be a better judge next time. I am sorry what you have been through but, as you yourself said, your situation in January is not much different to the present one.

Why is it so difficult to tell him to leave? Why would you need to "make a serious shift in consciousness so to not even notice this previous man" ? Why put yourself through all this unnecessary torture? Just tell the bastard to LEAVE YOUR LIFE and you turn the other way!

I am sorry you feel disappointed with my previous comments, but it was not meant to ignore your plea (in fact the complete opposite) and was not meant as a criticism of your affairs. And, as harsh as this may sound, perhaps spirit is putting you through these experiences in order to develop your soul to make the right choice(s) next time.

Ana, from your above post, I see your life is full and busy as it is without giving the time of day to such negative people. Take time for Ana for once; look after her, pamper her like no one else has ever done before!

Bless you.