Hi,

I am looking for a reading to understand my current situation better and to further my path. I have connected to someone and am not sure if this is really a new person. It appears to me to be new and very deep and soulful. I am grateful and hope for truth and honesty and a lasting relationship from this.

Can you help me to understand this connection better and whether my perception is correct.

Thank you and may this reading be from the love of God and to benefit all involved.

AnaCaro

This connection ended up proving to be the same person from the past. I have tried very hard to rid of him and know that everyday I become stronger and more capable to protecting myself from harm and invasion. I realize that I must be content in the now and not seek outside myself or he will enter and manipulate again.

Could you please read into this matter to see what is needed for me to understand so I can eliminate him from my life. How long will this take and what can I do to free myself from him?

HI AnaCaro

I will post here for you very soon.

Blessings.

Dear AnaCaro

I do not know whether you have made contact with the same person – thinking that he might have changed – and now you realised that there has been no change in him. Or, whether you have met a new person and he has turned out to be the same as someone else……? I do not know. And it is not so important, as I trust and hope you will see through the cards’ messages below.
I can’t help but feel you have been through some traumatic experience with this person – whoever he is – and I also sense you trust him but turned out that trust was unwarranted. I feel there is strength about you which you have not felt before. I also sense a feeling of self blame which you should stop immediately, please. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Whatever this experience has been for you, it has done one good thing for you: given you maturity for the future and a better insight on such encounters when they come your way.

I am using the Ellipse Spread. It is a 7-card spread and we will pick further cards should we need any clarifications.

I am using the Rider Waite deck.

I asked the cards insights, advice and guidance for you in this situation.

1- Past Influences now affecting the situation.
Queen of Wands.
(Court cards indicate either people in your life, coming into your life or their qualities/energies affecting your life).

This is a brave woman; trusts in herself and her actions, she is charismatic and competes in the men’s world, she knows how to dress and lure men, she has a business sense, and in other words, a woman in the fast lane full of ideas and passion. But….. I have to put this ‘but’ in here. Despite all her up-and-coming qualities, I fear this queen may lack in her judgement of people when it comes to matters of the heart. At times she is lonely and due to that may make choices unwisely, whereas in other facets of her life she would have made those choices wisely. This is the ultimate successful woman who is not all that agile in handling her own, personal issues.
This person or their qualities relate to the Fire sign.

2- Now – the influences surrounding you now.
Page of Pentacles.
(Another court card and we will proceed with the same concept as above).

A young messenger, a new insight, a feeling or even a vision that comes to you that now is the time to invest for the future. A new idea that is almost born within you that you have to start afresh. While your ideas may be fresh or brought to you by someone of the Earth sign (Capricorn), but whatever or whoever it is, this puts you in touch with mother earth and all the earthly needs and pleasures that you now wish to have for yourself. You may not have much to start with, but I sense young energy triggers your mind to look ahead to the future with a view to change things around you and possibly invest with yourself to greener pastures.

3- Future Influence having bearing/influence.
Justice.

Why do I suddenly feel that something has to be put right in your future about which you are already either investing all your energies or working hard to attain? This is a Major Arcana card and I trust justice will be served either by the divine or through Law and Enforcement in the earthly domain. Whether this justice is within your own psyche and emotions or whether on the material realm, it is imminent to happen around you.

4- What to do?
Ace of Swords.

When you  have an Ace coming to you and asking the above question, you wont really have to do much, as this divine gift of renewed strength and sharpness of mind will come upon you enabling you to judge and see things in ways that you unable to before. This is a gift coming your way – if it has not shown its sings already – that will enable you to speak your mind up fluently, it will give you all the necessary courage to conduct your affairs without the influence of stale emotions but rather of the mind and self-confidence. I see the Ace of Swords as a hidden strength that will amaze you and your surrounding by the way your react, talk, reason and use your will power.

5- External Influences.
Ten of Swords.
You are down, you are exhausted from the events around you and you feel you have reached the ultimate low. It is all normal considering what you have been through AnaCaro. But, please, let this not deter you. The future or the next step for you – aided by the qualities of the Ace of Swords – is to stand up and take matters into your own hands and face the future with a smile. Being down on the ground with ten swords stabbing you on the back will only give you the strength to get up and greet that sun shining on the horizon. It is there for you and please do not feel or think that these influences are the end of things. On the contrary, you will get up and look ahead to your future.

6- Hopes and Fears.
Page of Cups.

Of course, once you have a bad experience you are thinking twice about what may happen in the future. When you see the chance of a new romance, or even the hints of a new one, you are fearful if it may go the same way again. Whilst the message of the Page of Cups may be news of romantic nature or, let me put it differently, whilst you have not given up on love and romance and it is your wish that another opportunity may come forward to you, you are also defensive and fearful of this opportunity. You know what AnaCaro? You should not be. Life should go on for you and once you reach to that level of strength and judgement,  you will know not to fear the new opportunities coming your way.


7- Final outcome of the situation.
Seven of Cups.

Choices, choices and choices…… which one to take and which one to go for? Dare I say you may find yourself in a situation where you will have so many choices to pick from? Under a different light, I would have said this is the card of someone greedy who cannot make up his/her mind which one to pick of the choices being offered. Even if this was having  a multitude of choices in romance or in other aspects of your life, I would simply say for you to use your Ace of Swords sense of judgement.
I picked two clarification cards for this situation and I got The Strength and Two of Pentacles.
Use that inner strength of yours, the one that you can express with words rather than action, calmness rather than impulsive behaviour and try and juggle all your options for the best possible outcome for yourself and for your highest good.

I hope you will be able to see answers to your questions in the reading above, AnaCaro,

You have got the qualities to over come this situation and I am confident you will be able to come out of this even stronger than before.

Please let me know how you get on and I hope this has shed some light in your situation.

Blessings to you my dear friend.

Cedars

Cedars,

Thank you so much for your reading. I have been meditating on it for the past few days and your message really helped me to put the pieces of the puzzle together.

I did go through a traumatic event with this man and I am very hurt. I believe that the page of cups could be romance and/or my sensitivity to spiritual experiences which I do fear because this man has manipulated me psychicly. Yet the ace of swords is helping me to see things differently less like a victim and more with Christ consciousness.

I am certainly going through a rebirth and it has been very challenging yet strengthening for me. I am tired and going through some depression and I hope to be out of this soon. I do hope to find a true love soon yet I am, afraid and know I have to make changes.

I was a little confused about your messages on the choices and being greedy. Did you see me as greedy? Or did the card remind you of that? I would think in either message it would indicate I was like that. Yet I do not see myself that way and maybe this needs to be put to light.

Cendars I want to say again thank you for your reading you have helped me before and you did again. This means alot to me during this time and if you don't mind I may return again.

Blessings to you and may your guides and angels fill you with the light and love of God.


Ana