I haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost a month, I'm so worried about him because he is in a severely deep depression.  I've been so stressed about it that I am now depressed and running out of ideas on how to get out of this rut and take care of my responsibilities.  Can anyone please give some peace of mind as to when I will finally hear from him and tell me if he's okay or not.  I'm sorry to ask when I'm so new, but I just don't wanna be sad anymore and constantly have this on my mind.  If anyone can help, I would be soooo incredibly grateful.  My name is Melissa and my dob is 2-14-86 and my boyfriend's name is Chris and his dob is 7-23-85

Hi Melissa,

you have this same question in two consecutive days.
Please have a look at my reply. It is not a reading, but I hope it is some guidance that you perhpas need in this situation.

I think you are torturing yourself far too much. You can either break this silence by making contact with him or going to see him and put an end to this waiting situation. In doing so, you will have been kind to yourself and to him too, that is if he wishes  to accept your help in this situation.


Courage again!

You're right, I am torturing myself.  I was actually trying to re-word my first request because i clearly didn't give enough info and I still left out in this request that I have tried contacting him.  Even still, I shouldn't obsess over it and I just wanted to say thanks for your compassion, advise, and insight.  I hope you have a wonderful holiday, thanks again:)


Best Wishes,
Melissa

Our light is like a ripple effect, When you are happy others can feel it, When you are sad, not only do you go down, but the others around you go down too,

With that said,, If you contiune on this path of depression, In April of 2009 you will find yourself in a position of upheaval,
The tower, The tower is seen as a bad thing to many people, but in reality its a way of getting your path cleared of the negitive situations that you've become involved in, If you see the happenings in april as Worse, Then you aren't getting the message,

This feburary, You will need to make a decision about this person, My advice to you is that By saving ourselves we can save others from themselves,,

I'm always being told by my guides, when I'm stressing about my situations, TO STOP TAKING MYSELF SO SERIOUSLY.,
In fact the other week I went into a depression over nothing!! Well at the time I felt it to be everything,

I was again told to quit taking it so seriously, things have to happen so that I will make a move. Laugh with it, realize it's not here to hurt you but to make you grow with your knowledge,
I ended up getting dressed, went to the store, At the store, My cart I was using was taken, I had to carry everything On my shoulders, and then finally making it into a line to pay,, I went to set everything off my shoulders and onto the floor, when my pants decided to fall below my hip line and MOON everyone Behind me!!!
Instead of getting all embarrassed and Upset,,, I looked at the guy who was in total shock, and said MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Began laughing so hard, I then realized, I was being played a joke on,, It was funny still is,,,
I mean I could of decided to walk out of the store without my items from total embarrassement
But instead I laughed!
So your path is going to be going the way you choose to handle it,
I suggest re focusing your views onto YOURSELF Instead of absorbing someone else emotions,
You seem to be very empathic, You'll need to remember you have your own feelings, and that some of the feelings you are having don't belong to you and it's okay to let them go,
Have Fun!
Kelley

Good one Kybunker and I love your story in the supermarket.