Hello There
i have done a reading for you! im new to this board but i have experiance, no need to worry my friend.
i know how you feel with relationships going down hill, or in circles, but i feel you are, first off thinking too negitive which i believe effects everythign around you, if you drop your expectations and think more positive (but dont get false hope!!) things will pan out if its meant to be. this could be some sort of test for you and her. sometimes we just need a little direction!
I pulled three cards for you, with the intentions of the past presant and future. i use the BarbraWalker tarot deck, which are extremely symbolic, and i have had very good results with them for others.
Influence of the Past: Ace of wands (power) - invereted.
This depicsts the Goddess raising the fire serpant who bears the wand of power, which stands for the masculine fire element with the power to create or burn. Which tells me in the beggining this relationship may have been alittle more one sided (you not being the one with the stong hand maybe? are there doubts in yourself??)
The Presant : Six of wands - Glory
This depicts the "hero" riding triumphantly with the wand of power. - him being mounted on the horse giveing him a Godlike status, this to me shows that you need to be confident in order to continue. and not so doubting, everythig happens for a reason and like the son "the hero" rose again. this card is said to mean a period of victory, but possibly a short season in the sun. DO NOT become over confident.
Future: Ace of cups - Love.
This card invokes the the qualities of the mermaid-like Love goddess: pleasure happiness fruitfulness,satisfaction, love, caring -- as the power of Love has always done! enhancing other good influences and lessens bad ones.
This all could mean a number of things but from what i gather confidence is the key, confidence and communication with her, Every good relationship goes throught crisis, and if ou work together to get through it, rather than looking at what you or your partner has done wrong or isnt giving enough of ect. all the stronger you will be to come out of the situation.
i hope this helped you!
i wish you the best and i have a very good feeling about it! keep your chin up and be strong!