without giving much of any hint other then the question itself.
i like what you think of this reading.

"Should i allow my Ex to come back into my life?

using the Solution spread

                                         3.
                               1.                   4.

                               2.                   5.


1. The Task = The tower
2. The problem that is connected to it =Queen of pentacles
3. The Solution= Wheel of Fortune
4. New Insights= Five of cups
5. The conclusion= Eight of wands

I assume this is a request for a reading, and not a subject about Tarot and how to develop skill there.

Moves the post to Tarot Reading Forum.

Hi!   after reading your post.. i layed out the cards  using my Cards......

Native American tarot........

"Should i allow my Ex to come back into my life?

using the Solution spread

                                        3.
                              1.                   4.

                              2.                   5.


1. The Task = The tower
2. The problem that is connected to it =Queen of pentacles
3. The Solution= Wheel of Fortune
4. New Insights= Five of cups
5. The conclusion= Eight of wands


Native American Tarot  by Magda Weck Gonzales

1. The Tower:   you are about to leap into the unknown........take a huge risk....
2. Matriach of Shields: it have to be aware how kind and gentle person you are.. you give so much of yourself......
3.   Medicine Wheel: Now you need to acknowledge where you are in your life cycle?   what do you need to do to move forward?
4.Five Vessels:
:   you are stronger than you realize, you need to take a stand for what is to your  highest good for you...........on all levels.......
5. Eight Pipes: you may find Energies are scattered if you take the wrong path..........you need to listen to all the signs...........

hope this gives you some insight to meditate on.....

Blessed Be!
Vesta