Dear sir,
       For almost 3 years, I am in a state of confusion with respect to remarriage. My career is also in trouble. I would like to know about near future in these two areas. I request the forum members to give me a reading.

Name: Janakiraman, Time of  birth: 21-01-1966, 20:10 hours, Polur, Tamilnadu.

Time and date (question asked) : 19:28hrs, 07/12/08, Chennai.

Thanks and regards,

janakiraman

Dear Jramann,

As soon as I read your question on the re-marriage issue, I got the sensation of children. Whether there are children around you from a previous marriage or whether you wish to have a family of your own, I could not pinpoint. Whatever the case is with ‘children’, I also got a strong sense that you wish some personal happiness for yourself. That is your God given right and you should not feel bad at all for wishing that happiness for yourself.

On the question of re-marriage, I picked three cards from the Rider Waite for you and one card fell off twice while I was shuffling – The Chariot.

The Chariot. Four of Pentacles. King of Pentacles. The Hierophant.

You have been fighting a battle of wills and seeking the correct path for yourself for some time now. Have there been money matters around you that have forced you to take a step back on the idea of remarriage or you have simply put that idea on the back burner and held on to your resources, just waiting for the right time? Do I sense that the struggle and the skill of the Chariot and your patient ‘waiting stage’ have brought some dividends in your financial status that you now see fit to embark on the idea of remarriage? I don’t see any Cups to indicate a new romance or the re-kindling of an old one on the horizon, but the Hierophant somehow gives me the feeling of a blessing on a situation and someone who may show you the way, whether a religious person or an elderly in your family circles.  I picked two further clarification cards on this issue and got the following: Ace of Swords and Nine of Cups.

A new beginning of strength for you that is given birth out of your struggles and the patient waiting period which may lead to a state of contentment and attainment in the nine of cups. I can’t help but feel with these cards that you are financially, mentally and emotionally in the right place to take step if you wish so.


On the Career front.

The Hierophant. Five of Cups. Eight of Swords.

We have the Hierophant again here which to me is beginning to signify that you need a few practical lessons to learn on both levels of your current life. Whilst he may be a blessing father or a religious person, he is also here to teach and educate us in our earthly life and on matters relating to practicalities in life.  With the Five of Cups, I see you grieving a loss (job perhaps?) and cant see the opportunities that still lie ahead; like this man who sees the three toppled cups in front of him and is unable, due to his present grief, to notice two more cups still standing behind him. Have you ever thought; when one door closes another window opens? And, this I feel this is where you are at the present time unable to see ahead, as you feel trapped and blinded like the Eight of Swords. My dear man, I get the feeling that you see all avenues closed ahead of you as you keep on mourning a recent loss in a situation. All I can say is that these feelings of inadequacies are all in the mind. In reality, there are no closed doors for you; all you need to do is come out of your current state of mind and think out of the box, as the phrase goes. Look ahead into the horizon rather than at your current path which to you seems hopeless and uninspiring.

I hoe the above two scenarios made some sense to you and I look forward to receiving your feedback.

Best wishes to you.

Cedars

Dear Cedars,
   My profuse thanks for your prediciton. Yes, I have 2 girl children in previous marriage. I am more concerned about them rather than me. My present situation is such that, since they are girl children, they cannot express their feelings in some aspect to me as a father. Secondly, I need someone to carry the life further sharing everything. That is why, I am searching for someone and I waited after considering the astrologers. I felt it is high time that I have to go for the second one. This doesn't mean that I am seeking another marriage purely for the purpose of romance or to tide over the crisis. Once I commit to the marriage, I dont want her to be devoid of any of her expectations too. Your predictions are almost matching.

    Only one thing I want to ask you my dear friend, Can I go ahead for the re-marriage or not (that means, the blessings of god is there or not) is my request and if you can tell me, I will be grateful.

    With respect to my career, I didn't lose my current job, but I felt jaded up with the administration, bcos of denial of promotion, though extracting me to the core.

    I am very much thankful to you for your assistance.


with best wishes

Janakiraman

Dear Janakiraman

Thank you for your feedback and I am glad to hear that your job is still safe.
No one can say you do not deserve the happiness that a wife can bring into to your life for yourself and for your daughters.
As to you question, that if the gods are blessing your ideas and aspirations for a second marriage, just follow your instincts my friend and you will find their answer there.

All the best t you and much blessings in happiness.

cedars

Dear Cedars,
         Thank you once again for your patience and attentiveness to my questions and dedication to reply back duly. I am grateful to you. My heartful wishes to you. I pray to god to give you all the health and wealth. Well done. Keep it up.


God bless you,

janakiraman