my name is vin, i have a new boyfriend, but didn't sure if he is the one, because he said that he is not into the marriage, but i still hope someday he will, i try the best that i could, but still couldn't be sure about him, what should i do?

You are now 28, and you will not be any younger.

You say you love him, and believe he loves you......and since you will go further, I assume this relation has last for at least one year....if not...let it develop natural.

If relationship is older than a year..Is this enough for you?

If yes...then fine....live with him, and see what happens in the future.

If no, then move future to now...tell him that you love him...tell him that you believe he loves you....but you want more out of life....you want a family.

Now he has to evaluate his preferences, if he really loves you, and want to share the future with you, then he might accept your "proposal".

If he donen't love you enough to make this commitment, then I have hard time to see that this will change, because you have given him the chance to evaluate.

Good luck.

Hi Vin,
Just having a read at these postings and drew the 8 of Wands reversed (Druidcraft pack) sense that "...the situation will just continue indefinitely without conclusion." You need to make a move here. If marriage is important you need to make that clear from the outset, but not too forcefully. The man on the card is casting the wands into the distance; some will take root, some won't, but without trying nothing at all can move forwards. Any help?

Blessings x x