I will only add one thing that is on my mind.

I have seen the advices from Vedic that if you put your effort into making this right, then you will succeed.

A marriage is always between 2 persons.

It always take 2 persons will for the marriage to keep on.

If you do what is in your power, and your husband chose to leave you, then this is his choice....you haven't done anything wrong....you are not a failur.

It will be the will of your husband that determind if this marriage goes on, you have already shown that you are willing to fight for it.

So my message is.....If your Husband leave you...."DON*T FEEL GUILTY" he use his own free will to do this...and if anyone is to blame...then it is he....or a combination...but not you alone!

I totally agree with Rhuto.

When I read your last posting, crying and  feeling guilty and conforming to your husband's unspoken wishes to give him space and so on... I thought, No, No.. you should not do that. You are in a way admitting guilt that he has not accused you of and giving in to him for something that he has not yet explained to you.

Keeping your own dignity, do everything you can possibly can to save this marriage; after that, as Rhuto said, it is his choice. OK? Please wipe those tears off - if he finally chooses to go, it will be his loss.

Hard as it sound, please smile

Blessings.

Thanks grandpa... cedars.....

I understand.. but when you love a person so much that even life does not matter that much, it is very hard.

Thanks for your kind words...