| demanda wrote: |
| I don't know how to deal with being accused of things constantly.. In the begining I gave him reason to doubt but after 2 years and no progress I am started to think it's a waste of time. How do I overcome his suspisions without getting angry? |
Hi,
Suspicion is something that once the idea has been planted it can be very hard if not impossible to stop it growing and being re-awoken from time to time. It's all a matter of trust really, being suspicious of someone means that you don't trust them and that is no base for a strong relationship. Lets see what the cards have to offer in the way of reasons here
Six of Pentacles:A man offers you something that you wanted, you reach your hands out and lean towards him,
Five of Pentacles: Another man comforts you as you cry, his face is grim.
From these two cards I am presuming that there was an affair or a tryst of somekind and that you were caught out which then led to the comforting and making up, and now leads to the suspicions that a similar thing may be happening even if it isn't.
The Sun has been shown as an answer, a bright golden sun shining down on two naked youths. Nakedness being symbolic of their innocence and having nothing to hide and nowhere to hide lies. This is suggesting that the way forward is to be absolutely honest, to be clear cut and decisive and make sure that there can be no misinterpretation or distrust anymore. this might mean significant changes, keeping to a schedule so that you are always contactable, and predictable, keeping together and staying in with no possibility of straying.
But, this may all seem to be very restrictive and yes it is, so it is up to you whether or not you feel there is enough left in this relationship for you to want to go this route. There are no guarantees that it will work but you would know that you could do no more and that you are truly innocent here and provably so.
Hope you enjoyed your reading
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