Thanks Kybunker!



It is the most basic spread ever, but what i like about it is that it really helps to clear up present and near future situations... Of course, the more precise the question, the more precise the answer.

Thanks for your help and readings to all who responded.  I am going to give these answers some thought.   I know what you mean about specific questions.  

There is only one man in my mind right now, lol.  I guess basically I had just wondered what to make of him and the situation I'm in with him.  It doesn't make sense yet whenever I do a reading it says this man who I am supposed to be focused on.  It's just odd...lol

Thanks again everyone, I do appreciate this greatly.  I've been having a bit of a mini crisis lately, lol.

You also have a Psychic reading here too

Again thanks everyone for all your help.  I cannot tell you how much this has helped.  

I guess I left the question open-ended just to see what others would come up.

I hope you don’t mind answering some questions after going through the trouble of doing a reading for me.  As I said in the previous post, I needed to let all those ideas sink in.

To farafina:
If I had asked a specific question to start with, it would have been something like, “There is a man in my life who I am deeply in love with and we are separated by time and distance.  There seems to be no way for us to ever be together.  We haven’t even admitted there is something between us due to these factors because it just “seems” like it will never work.  However, there is “something” there.  As much as I would like to say it’s imagined, I can honestly say that I have done enough soul searching to say the feelings are very, very real.  (If he were to reject that, I would understand because I do not want this man just for the sake of having a man in my life.)  

You are absolutely right about when I’m in love, I’m in love and it’s with no one else.  Ironically, though I am a dreamer.  Many of my dreams about him come true and I only have those kinds of dreams for former boyfriends, close friends and family.  Of course, on the other hand you have a point.  I am not a dreamer because I have these disturbing dreams and want to make reality out of them.  

That fiery man is probably him you’re describing.  

I would be curious to see this other man coming in my life.  I truly would.  Because the one I have been talking about is complicated, but truthfully I can’t get away from the feeling that I’m supposed to be focusing on him.  Even when he is far from my mind, I dream about him.  I feel as though I’m supposed to do something for him or with him even if it’s not a “forever” thing.  I just feel a pull to him I’ve never felt to another guy.  

Is it possible that the 1st and 2nd set are to different facets to the same man do you think?  The 3rd man…complete mystery to me.  LOL

To kybunker:
He is a lot of fun, this man.  We aren’t together (yet? maybe? hopefully one day?).  If we were together, this is the sort of thing we’d have fun with.

Anyway, I find this all a bit personal and self-involved to talk like this forever, but I wanted the barest reading just to see what other people’s guts got from me.  

Whenever I do a tarot about him it never waivers.  It always says that as long as I’m willing to wait a bit, the person I want will be there, obstacles ahead but my desires will be achieved.  I am willing to wait a million lifetimes for this person but it frightens me that the tarot seems to think it’s just a matter of time.  And I don’t see it “realistically” happening ever.  

Often when I do my own reading, I get the six of cups a lot which I take to mean that I am still on the journey, perhaps dealing with the past, cleaning it up and that I am interested in him even without all the worldly masks.  

The funny thing is, the night that I was propelled to ask for this reading, I did dream of him, and he and I were together, laughing and happy.  Things weren’t perfect (there was some woman I didn’t know in his life) but he wanted to change that and be with me.  It was a good dream.  

Sorry to go on like this.  It’s not my style.  But this has really got me crazy.  

Thank you all again for your help and support.  

Oh my goodness!  I didn't see your post Lady of Avalon until I wrote all that babbling above!  Thank you for letting me know.