i think i posted my original question in the wrong area.  I need someone to give me some insight on my current situation....i just want to know if anyone can tell me where im headed with my love life.....a reading in that area would be much appreciated.....is the guy that i was with in the past and can't get out of my head the one for me.....or should i keep looking.....im already in a relationship for 10 years now and i want out.....im not talking about jumping from one guy to another overnight but i just would like some insight on whats ahead......thank you.

you might find that your dissatisfactions are causing you to fantasize about the past. it might be wise to determine the areas that are creating dissatisfaction and start dealing with them, when two people love each other it should be a desire to improve relations when things are not going well. the tendency is to go through rough patches and when they are over to say 'phew', and not deal with any of it.

if you can not bring yourself to a point of managing relationships, then we break down love, deliberately toward the end focusing on any negative aspect, that is why one of the most popular methods to get a couple back on track is to give them both the job of noticing at least 3 things everyday that they like about their partner or to verbally appreciate something the partner did that was cool. this is a starter, after about a month a couple usually is a lot happier together, then you work on communication and sort out some of the problems if any remain.  Rarely is love the issue although we all think it is. it is the ability to have a good relationship and the willingness to create a loving environment where that relationship can grow.

too often age does not bring with it maturity in the area of love or relationships, and we still function from a child principle, ie if i get what i want i am loved. growing that to if we get what we want we are love, you will enjoy life to the max.

the reason i went into that is i feel you with your current partner for some time to come, dissatisfaction included, life should be enjoyed so where love is present and happiness is not it is only logical to work on the abilities to have a good relationship.

i think it so cool who the gifted can read your futre, past and present. i would really love to learn.

thank you for getting back to me...this current relationship that i am in now has been almost 10 years now....and we do have three children,  There are some major areas that we need to work on for sure, and i guess im just getting lonely with him out of town working all the time....and bored living in a city where i know no one.   i guess i just always wonder if anything could have happened between me and this other guy....because i never even gave him a chance we never even dated although he really wanted to.....that was before i had children and something tells me in the back of my head that this other guy just can't accept it....so i think that even though i knwo that this other guy is going to come around and try to put the moves on me ....im just going to stay clear of him....im getting to old and have a family now and i can't just risk it for a one nighter with a guy who even if it did work out with would probably not last very long.....i guess i always had the answer to my question but i just needed a little help to see that what i felt is just what it is....so thank you.....take care!

Hi Squeaky,

We are always keen to encourage new readers but can I respectfully ask that you read our guidelines posted at the top of each forum before giving any readings please,  We ask that the reader post the deck used and the cards and individual places so that we can all benefit from the tarot reading. If you are however giving a psychic reading then please can you keep those to the Psychic Reading Requests and Forum.

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