Hi Hydrostar,
After pulling a few cards for you using the RW deck, here is the result.
You: King of Wands
Your partner: Ace of Cups
The relationship: 4 of Pentacles reversed
Advice/outcome: 5 of swords
The cards indicate that you are the kind of person who initiates new ideas, and is enthusiastic about life as a whole. You know how to sell your ideas when you need to. A little impatient, I get. With an impulsive side to you. You are confident and generous. You don't hesitate to help others.
Your partner appears to have strong feelings for you and to be deeply involved emotionally into this. It is obvious that he is offering you his love and has forgiven all. He is willing to be the giver in this relationship.
The cards show that the relationship that you both have right now could be stable and secure, but both of you are doubting the other right now. Both of you seem to be defensive and not wanting to completely open and up and trust the other. I wonder why? This relationship is a cautious one. But by being so cautious, the card shows that you are blocking change from happening and that there are issues of jealousy and possessiveness. At the same time, neither of you are expressing themselves fully.
It seems that this relationship is heading to a pace where both of you are going to have to face your anxieties and your fears, even if it is not always fun to do so. The cards indicate that the relationship will reach a point where none of you willl have any other choice but to face whatever it is that created problems between you both in the past. Until you face the issue at the bottom of all this guardedness in your relationship, none of you will be able to enjoy your relationship fully.
Cheers,
Farafina