Could someone please do a reading on my relationship with Noah in general? Why is he so indecisive? Why does he want to go back to his ex the two times that he has? The 1st time he said that he would never make this mistake again... and then last night he breaks up with me... so that he can see her tonight? Is it becasuse of what he told me... that he feels that he and me are fate... but that if he stomps on his ex that it will never happen? Could you please do a general reading on mine and his relationship? I live there... and he says that I can stay... Is this the case? Does he really love me? Does he really want to be with me? What is getting in the way between me and him being together? Do him and his ex really need to be together now so that me and him can be together later? Anything at all that you could tell me will be greatly appreciated!

Hi Goodmotorheadgirl.

I did a reading for you not too long ago, let's refer back to it again.

This is not the time to think with your heart. You need to approach your future with a clinical mind. You are unable to judge events and issues clearly as you are reluctant or fearful to make decisions. Don’t tackle something which is beyond your capabilities, either at work or in relationships.  You are an intelligent, refined and sensitive person, but maybe a bit of a dreamer. Try to get down from that cloud and rely on your inner strength. Sometimes things don’t work, simply because you don’t stand your ground. You practically surrendered to whoever wanted to push you in any way they want? So, that which you need to develop is your own determination to succeed, although not easy, it should work fine for you especially in the long term.
At this time you are not really sure what to do; it’s an area you haven’t explored before. In this sense you have to learn as you go. There is strenuous opposition around you. Therefore it makes it so much harder to achieve your goals. One thing is sure, that when you have fought the good battle, you will be armed with knowledge, understanding and power. When others get to the point you are now, they too will fight you for that extra portion you achieved. With your experience and knowledge you will be able to fight back victoriously. But remember, the most important thing never to forget, is that this is also a time of planning and strategizing to retain your agility.

Be careful not to touch and let go, this is a result of the inner conflict you are contending with, people are questioning your pure dedication and commitment. One question you nearly always should ask yourself is “is this what I want to achieve?” stick to what you decided and don’t be blinded by pettiness.

It is important for you to remember that everything has a beginning but a lasting influence as well. You have a tendency to over conform to be socially accepted and this is a big reason for those you think as a perfect fit, to abuse you, physically or mentally!!! Your current financial troubles are due to you, spending money in order to keep those you thought love  you, happy. Their motives may have been questionable and, although you knew it, you didn’t say a thing about it. That was seen as you accepting their control over you. The needed control you had on your own life was therefore also surrendered? -- Big mistake!

Are you perhaps a bit impulsive? We are all entering a period of festivities and sharing, each other, and being in the company of those who bring happiness to our lives.  It is a period in which we must carefully discern the forest from the trees. Be on your guard and don’t rush into something you are unsure off. Don’t be impatient; you need to depend on your inner strength more than your intuition. Look at common sense and rather put your decision on Ice for a while?


You will be committing yourself to the most important decision, and relationship of your life.Should you be heading in the wrong direction the warning signs will be evident around you. Look at the history of the relationships you were in. Does it seem to have a repetitive cycle? Always remember, no matter how sure you are, the symptoms of a problem will always be the same. I always explain it like this: Your past or history determines your current situation and your current situation predicts you future to some extent. Stand back a bit and investigate each and every aspect of your relationships. You already know what happened, you have the experience.  Have a consistent measure and compare it to what you have. It may help you to break the mould.

In closing,
You are choosing your soul-mate, is he your best friend, lover and protector. Does he share your happiness, but also your times of sadness? Will he back you up when you need it most? These are a few questions you must consider.

Although your heart is involved, think with a clinical mind and you will shape your destiny!

Blessed be

Hi, GMHG!

Am I seeing too much Water-Cups-Emotions clouding your Air-Swords-better judgment? I know that is usually the case when in the middle of a love relationship, but please pay some attention to Payewacker and stop playing games with your own heart and letting others do so too.

Whatever the real answer to all your questions is (and for most of them we should be asking Noah), it is quite obvious that he is going through a very confusing emotional time. He does not know who he loves anymore or who deserves all his attention. Maybe he really does love you more than her or even both, but this situation is hurting you and you should not allow it. Think of yourself first.

Even if you think he means no harm by his wayward behavior, try to explain to him that you need to protect yourself from being continually hurt by his actions. Stop being so available to him: move out if you possibly can and work toward your own well being.

The more you love and value yourself, the more others will. It's a promise.

Let us know how you are getting on, we are here to help if we can.

And remember... "Be Water, My Friend"  

Okay..... Okay...... Dear goodmotherheadgirl,
I did not lay a pread of cards nor did I look at any card to say what I am going to say.

Real life experience is stronger than the tarot (oooops, sorry friends).
As my two good friends above have advised you, STOP being so available to him.! I am talking from MY OWN life experience.
Dont answer the phone all the time and always promptly.

Go out more. If going out doenst do you any good, pamper yourself and cook yourself a nice meal and invite your close friend for dinner.

STAND your ground. If you dont do it now, you wil get that stage.. So, you might as well do it now!

Tell him to GO. Let him go and if it is meant for him to come back, it will be. BUT do not sit and wait for him.
Oh, sweet girl, these are easy for us to say, but take it from those of us who have experienced it.

My the Universe guide you.
Blessings
cedars