Oh, dear, just the kind of questions everybody tends to shy from when doing a reading!

I really recommend you to take the Tarot course, so that you can learn to make the right questions (questions that require a yes/no answer are a waste of Tarot's possibilities and can get you misleading answers). For example, maybe if you phrased your question as "what do I need to know about my relationship? How would having a baby change things for us?". That way you could get a more ample answer covering several aspects of the situation.

Also, since you have always been interested in Tarot, would you not prefer to be able to read for yourself instead of depending on others? We enjoy doing readings for practice and there are many experienced and accomplished readers in the board that could give you an answer, but some subjects are dangerous to approach and Tarot reading has its own ethics to protect both readers and querents (there is a post about it, if you want to check it out).

Having said that, I hope everything works fine for you and I look forward to seeing you on the course or posting on the threads. Welcome "aboard"!  

Gem, I did not know there were no posting requirements for readings any more. Glad to hear it, since there seem to be more readers than querents thanks to your course  

Anyway, there will always be some difficult readings that will make us hesitate in giving an answer (coward that I am   ).

Hope everyone gets some kind of help, even if it is not what they were actually seeking in the first place.  

Okay I wil be sure too do that..I am interested in it. I honestly did not know how to ask a question or how to put it I apologize for that. How do you do the course? I would really like to do it. And if there is any way u can help me with my question I would greatly appriciate it. I am not trying to bother no one or annoy them of my questionz. I jus feel I need to know if me and him were meant to be together given the situation with the baby.

Glad you want to join in the fun! If you go to the general index, there is a subforum called Learn Tarot (or some such) at the Mystic Academy paragraph (different from this, it took me a while to realize). Open that and try to find a post by Gem called The Way Map. You can click on each of its links in order and Gem will guide you through. You will also see the homework already done by others. If in doubt, we are all happy to give you a hand.

As for your question, think if you are ready for an answer (always bearing in mind that most answers are already inside you). We can tell you "YES, you are meant for each other". You will just think: "Oh, good, that is what I thought, anyway". Even worse, we might tell you "NO, it's not meant to be". What would you do, then? Start looking for another prospect? How could you do that if you really love him?

See why we could be a little reticent on a reading like yours? We are not offended in the least, but we are here to help, and I am not sure if a reading on a love situation would help or hinder, so just in case...

On heart affairs, you should always go by your heart and not allow any stranger to tell you what to do. Ask yourself what is your gut feeling. Can you imagine being without him? How does it make you feel? As for babies, I believe they chose by themselves when and how to appear. If one is due for you, you should not worry about it overmuch.

Best of luck  

I am very sorry I have not posted a reply. I have not been able to reach the computer in a few days. I am about to be doin the tarot things u suggested. As I said before I am very interested.


As far as a reading goes. Would it be possible to ask nething about him at all? or nething bout how he feels about me? Sorry for asking so many questions, I believe truthfully and feel he loves me with all his heart. I've definatly had my share of the bad guys who broke my heart, but for the first time in my life i can finally say someone trully loves me which is not something i can say often...

For your question can I imagine my life without him? Honestly no, I cannot. I can't even picture us breaking up unless were breaking up but were both crying. Like I dont know thats hard to explain but I cannot picture life without him. And he makes me feel a way I have never felt before. I can be a little upset with him for something real little but as soon as I hear his voice and him say I love you Baby I forget about even being the slitest bit of mad at him. And we have the type of relationship were we do not fight...Not once have we gotten into a fight or arguement jus play arguements.

I am buyin him a ring for Valentine's Day, and Ingraved ring which says Ill love you forever baby since that is what we say to eachother, and he said he would wear it everyday, he does not know what his gift is but he does know its some sort of jewlery.  I honestly love this kid more then anything in this world.

Thanks for yours guyses help it means alot to me..