Please help! Which guy is going to be the best out of the two? There is Noah and Jp. Noah really wants a relationship... but, I don't know if he's just playing me or not. Jp acts like he isn't interested in a relationship. Does Noah have any other women he wants or is with?

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

Hi Goodmotorheadgirl,

I wonder if any reader will venture here? We have had many requests in line with what you are asking. Please remember that the Tarot can't indicate this or that, if or buts, this one, that one.

A very big possibility is that it may say, you will enter in a new relationship etc. and describe what may happen?

In essence you need to decide your own preferance, you may want something in the one relationship, but need something different in the other, wants and needs is a good indication for your future happiness.

I wonder, if you start focussing on making that drastic decision, you need a very clear head as it's your future you are shaping!!

Blessed be!

Hi Goodmotorheadgirl,

As promised, I did your reading:
This is not the time to think with your heart. You need to approach your future with a clinical mind. You are unable to judge events and issues clearly as you are reluctant or fearful to make decisions. Don’t tackle something which is beyond your capabilities, either at work or in relationships.  You are an intelligent, refined and sensitive person, but maybe a bit of a dreamer. Try to get down from that cloud and rely on your inner strength. Sometimes things don’t work, simply because you don’t stand your ground. You practically surrendered to whoever wanted to push you in any way they want? So, that which you need to develop is your own determination to succeed, although not easy, it should work fine for you especially in the long term.
At this time you are not really sure what to do; it’s an area you haven’t explored before. In this sense you have to learn as you go. There is strenuous opposition around you. Therefore it makes it so much harder to achieve your goals. One thing is sure, that when you have fought the good battle, you will be armed with knowledge, understanding and power. When others get to the point you are now, they too will fight you for that extra portion you achieved. With your experience and knowledge you will be able to fight back victoriously. But remember, the most important thing never to forget, is that this is also a time of planning and strategizing to retain your agility.

Be careful not to touch and let go, this is a result of the inner conflict you are contending with, people are questioning your pure dedication and commitment. One question you nearly always should ask yourself is “is this what I want to achieve?” stick to what you decided and don’t be blinded by pettiness.

It is important for you to remember that everything has a beginning but a lasting influence as well. You have a tendency to over conform to be socially accepted and this is a big reason for those you think as a perfect fit, to abuse you, physically or mentally!!! Your current financial troubles are due to you, spending money in order to keep those you thought love  you, happy. Their motives may have been questionable and, although you knew it, you didn’t say a thing about it. That was seen as you accepting their control over you. The needed control you had on your own life was therefore also surrendered? -- Big mistake!

Are you perhaps a bit impulsive? We are all entering a period of festivities and sharing, each other, and being in the company of those who bring happiness to our lives.  It is a period in which we must carefully discern the forest from the trees. Be on your guard and don’t rush into something you are unsure off. Don’t be impatient; you need to depend on your inner strength more than your intuition. Look at common sense and rather put your decision on Ice for a while?


You will be committing yourself to the most important decision, and relationship of your life.Should you be heading in the wrong direction the warning signs will be evident around you. Look at the history of the relationships you were in. Does it seem to have a repetitive cycle? Always remember, no matter how sure you are, the symptoms of a problem will always be the same. I always explain it like this: Your past or history determines your current situation and your current situation predicts you future to some extent. Stand back a bit and investigate each and every aspect of your relationships. You already know what happened, you have the experience.  Have a consistent measure and compare it to what you have. It may help you to break the mould.

In closing,
You are choosing your soul-mate, is he your best friend, lover and protector. Does he share your happiness, but also your times of sadness? Will he back you up when you need it most? These are a few questions you must consider.

Although your heart is involved, think with a clinical mind and you will shape your destiny!

I trust there are some points on which you received clarity, please drop a line of feedback.

Thx and Blessed be.

Payewacker.

Hi Meg,

Yes, I think we need to bring back the old rule of eight, rather 10 and also not only blahblahblah, senseable and intelligent topics and replies!!!

Blessed be