My heart really feels drawn to move out of Country and take my husband with me. All of our family will be left behind and they are a hugh part of our lifes. Would it be better to dream of this other country and stay with my family or go t this other country and dream of my fmaily?

Thanks!

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Amanda
Female
DOB 4/28/1983

Hi Amanda,

I took the liberty of giving you this reading in answer to your dilemma. I used the Rider Waite original deck.

YOU- The energies surrounding you at present.
Justice card.
This couldn’t portray your current situation better. You are in a position where you are trying to take into consideration the feelings (and desires) of two parties. You are trying to be fair to yourself and your husband and to both your families. This fairness in terms of our Mr. Justice can sometimes be quite cold and without emotions. Justice usually does not take emotions into consideration, but judging from your query, I cannot believe this is the case. If you were feeling cold and unemotional, you wouldn’t even have this dilemma on what to do without hurting or getting hurt.


ENERGIES SURROUNDING YOUR CURRENT SITUATION:
Two of Wands. The Hermit. Knight of Pentacles.
How true that you need to make a choice and take that leap forward to a new ‘world’. You have the world in the palm of your hands (or so you wish) and one of your hands is on your preferred choice. What is this choice, only you know or will come to know? You may attain this choice by acting a bit like The Hermit; seeking for that enlightenment of your path by asking questions or doing some soul searching. Do I get the feeling that this question has been within you and you only? Does your husband have any say in this matter? Have you talked to him about this as to what is bothering you and what your dilemma is? He has come up in your energy as someone who is careful with his choices and thinks deep about any steps he may take for the future. Would the move present him with better opportunities for employment and financial stability, or is he quite content where he is now? You see many questions to ask within yourself and those around you.

ENERGIES SURROUNDING FOR THE WAY FORWARD:
Eight of Pentacles. The Hierophant. Queen of Wands.
If we were sitting face to face, I would have asked you what country you are in now and where do you aspire to go? Aren’t there any opportunities where you are now or is your desire to move derived from economic factors and better prospects for job and security?  Would staying put (or even moving away) mean a lot of hard work to you (and your husband) and the chance to learn something new by way of a job or a craft?  Or, could it be that the same results can be achieved if you put that same hard work in your current location? Have you considered perhaps that moving away would also mean leaving behind your faith, beliefs and your society and all the cultural roots that you have built in your current location? Or, would you perhaps embrace all such new aspects in the other Country and how different these would be from the ones you have grown up with? If you have been carrying all these thoughts and worries within yourself only, wouldn’t it be a good idea to start talking to family members, the elders around you and see what kind of input/guidance you get from them?

I know it is a dilemma, but one sentence in your question that ‘worried’ me a bit was: “…and take my husband with me.”  Are you deciding for your husband as well? What is his say in the matter? How about his family? You see it is best to let the query out and air it to your nearest and dearest. Perhaps you will see things in a different light and will make your decision to stay or go a lot easier?

Wish you all the best and blessings in your choice.

I would appreciate your feedback.

Thanks
Cedars

Thank you so much for doing this and providing me with a lot of information



No, my husband is in on this with me. He has as much say in this matter as I do. We actually want the same thing ... to move there but we both don't want to leave our families. Yes, my husband is very careful in his decision making. The move would give him better opportunities for employment and financial stability if not the same as here. It wouldn't be worse, that's for sure.



The want to move actually has nothing to do with money or opportunitys. We want to move to the country of our ancestors.



As far as faith and beliefs meaning religion both places are pretty much the same. I am not Catholic but in the other country they are mainly Catholic. I'm pretty sure that there are Churches and followers of our choosen Denomination so that wouldn't be a problem.



I'm not deciding for my husband at all. He and I both share equal in this. Again we feel the same. We want to go but we don't want to leave our families.

I sure hope I answered everything. Thanks again.

You know I should mention (and actually doing this might ultimatly be the deciding point) we've never even been to this other Country. We've read about it, I've talked with people who live there. We've looked into their different ways of living compared to us. I'm actually afraid of even going to visit. I fear that if we visit that it would make me want to move there that much worse (my husband too). Then being torn by both wants, our families and the land of our Ancestors would be ten times as bad on us.

Dear Amanda
You are so full of mystique and mystery.
From the bottom of my heart I wish you the best guidance of the Spirit and hope you and your husband are happy wherever you choose to live.

Light and blessings to you both and thank you very much for your feedback.

cedars