Hi Purplesuzi,

Ok, let’s start of with a bit of your history, you come from a well balanced home in which your parents created their own success, in other words they did not ride piggy-back, this is also your outlook on life, as you are not a person that base things on assumptions but act on facts as they are presented to you, this sometimes can be good or to your detriment. You’ve been hopping and bouncing for a while, seeing as you have the fool as your cross, therefore the opportunity you have been pondering is delayed by your own insecurity, what is also obvious is the fact that being so many people under the same roof, creates bad vibes and regularly, maybe to often. I think you are sitting in a situation of animosity directed at you, don’t think it will get any better, at least not now.

Now I want us to look at the King and Queen of Wands, they are flanking you and gives the past and future influence, these two royals seems to be your parents or family members with paternal feelings toward you. How do I get to this assumption. Looking at your zodiac sign being aquarius “water”. Scorpio is also a water sign but a desert dweller. Scorpio-water, Scorpio-desert—Wands. Why does it make sense for you to be Page of Wands, hahahaha, I assigned the cards to weeks in the year, Page of Wands, second quarter of Aquarius,  

Let’s also have a look at your covering card, or the main influence in this reading, everything is therefore based on this.

We find the Ace of Wands, this describes a new venture or the start of something you have been contemplatig for some time, in position one and ace,we get it as being the start or the idée. From here forward it seems as if your father will  lend a helping hand. It also seems as, the older you become the less your mother’s influence is becoming. You are slowly taking more advice from the King of Wands, who will also feature prominently in your future.

Now the king of Cups reversed give me the idée that the occurring arguments is always  you and your boyfriend and leaves you unsettled. But as you are the mover and shaker, he is far more passive, he might feel too old for you sometimes? Anyhow, your house or environment has Justice meaning all will be well soon, the point you have been trying to make all along will be realised for the truth it is. You just feel that no matter how hard you try, they don’t listen!!!!!  

Card 9, the six of Swords relates , we see the tendency of stagnation, no movement, no real improvement in your environment. You may even see this as a point where you are hesitant to move ahead because you haven’t though of a solution or plan of action yet. Clearly defining your future and goals will give you insight regarding a possible way out. This card may also signify that it is impossible for you to move on, simply because there are too many obstacles holding you back. Although your thoughts are more negative at this stage, you need to act wisely in your decisions and consider waiting some time to achieve your goals. Looking at your situation you may expect something good in itself to happen. I want to also add to this the actual way in which goals are achieved. You can keep on dreaming until you are blue in the face, the way to make a dream a reality is to add a time period to it. However you need to realise that this is actually your hopes and fears, therefore it’s absolutely the way you feel about things, if you sit in this rut where you feel as if nothing is moving, it won’t move, the only inspiration comes from you yourself.

Now here we get to a wild card popping it’s head out, the Knight of Swords? What to make of this lot? MMMMMM, it indicates the position you are in. An explosive situation, luckily it will be quick but leave you with remorse.

I normally draw another card to tie up the tenth card, here we get the four of Wands reversed, Your business and personal relationships may have entered a time of stagnation. You are still experiencing the last remnants of the troubles you experienced before. At this time you may see the mountain ahead as a huge obstacle, but you have the potential to win this battle. You will most probably be spending a lot of time working at your business or your relationship. This would be the best opportunity to then strengthen your business base, unfortunately at the cost of your personal relationships. The frustration adding to dissatisfaction with yourself and your situation. You need to consider your approach and endeavor to alter it a bit or change your attitude, gear yourself for success, and it will be yours.

What I also draw is three cards of Advice,
1) Page of Pentacles
2) The Moon
3) Two of Wands

Something interesting here is the way you have the Ace of Wands, and then now the Two of Wands. Your inherent ability to be successful and the Ace’s indication of new opportunities points the way you should consider going. With this in mind, it is obvious that you are the one who has the ability to plan and manage your future, keeping balance between your intuition and reality.  Using your creative ability has put you in a fortunate position. You are boldly embarking where no man has ever gone before.

Blessed be

"Ok, let’s start of with a bit of your history, you come from a well balanced home in which your parents created their own success, in other words they did not ride piggy-back, this is also your outlook on life, as you are not a person that base things on assumptions but act on facts as they are presented to you, this sometimes can be good or to your detriment. You’ve been hopping and bouncing for a while, seeing as you have the fool as your cross, therefore the opportunity you have been pondering is delayed by your own insecurity, what is also obvious is the fact that being so many people under the same roof, creates bad vibes and regularly, maybe to often. I think you are sitting in a situation of animosity directed at you, don’t think it will get any better, at least not now".


I didn't come from a well balanced home. My mother had to balance a lot of things, including my father's problems however, I do go on logic and this can sometimes get me down. There are times when I should had trusted my gut first. I do have an insecurity within myself. It's almost like I don't believe I can be successful and so I don't push on with the things I so want to achieve.

"Now I want us to look at the King and Queen of Wands, they are flanking you and gives the past and future influence, these two royals seems to be your parents or family members with paternal feelings toward you. How do I get to this assumption. Looking at your zodiac sign being aquarius “water”. Scorpio is also a water sign but a desert dweller. Scorpio-water, Scorpio-desert—Wands. Why does it make sense for you to be Page of Wands, hahahaha, I assigned the cards to weeks in the year, Page of Wands, second quarter of Aquarius"

This part stumbles me because Aquarius is an Air sign, a common mistake frequently made by people. So I will have to skip this part!    


"Let’s also have a look at your covering card, or the main influence in this reading, everything is therefore based on this.
We find the Ace of Wands, this describes a new venture or the start of something you have been contemplatig for some time, in position one and ace,we get it as being the start or the idée. From here forward it seems as if your father will  lend a helping hand. It also seems as, the older you become the less your mother’s influence is becoming. You are slowly taking more advice from the King of Wands, who will also feature prominently in your future".

This is correct about a new venture. I have many interests and a few good abilities however, My father is definately not around me in order to lend a helping hand. I wouldn't need or want his help anyway. He would never offer it anyway. As for my mother's influence lessening, this is very true. It is the best way forward for me to not allow my mother to 'put me off' or 'make me feel guilty'


"Now the king of Cups reversed give me the idée that the occurring arguments is always  you and your boyfriend and leaves you unsettled. But as you are the mover and shaker, he is far more passive, he might feel too old for you sometimes? Anyhow, your house or environment has Justice meaning all will be well soon, the point you have been trying to make all along will be realised for the truth it is. You just feel that no matter how hard you try, they don’t listen!!!!"


This is certainlt true. My partner is far too passive for his own good it seems. I feel I make all the decisions and once in a whiule I just need him to take over in the drivers seat! I feel he does feel too old for me. He has said this a lot.He is 10 yrs older than me and I feel this worries him. I really don't feel like people are listening but I know things have to change soon. I just don't feel that my partner is focused enough.

"Card 9, the six of Swords relates , we see the tendency of stagnation, no movement, no real improvement in your environment. You may even see this as a point where you are hesitant to move ahead because you haven’t though of a solution or plan of action yet"


SO TRUE!!!

"Clearly defining your future and goals will give you insight regarding a possible way out. This card may also signify that it is impossible for you to move on, simply because there are too many obstacles holding you back"


TRUE AGAIN....

"Although your thoughts are more negative at this stage, you need to act wisely in your decisions and consider waiting some time to achieve your goals. Looking at your situation you may expect something good in itself to happen. I want to also add to this the actual way in which goals are achieved. You can keep on dreaming until you are blue in the face, the way to make a dream a reality is to add a time period to it. However you need to realise that this is actually your hopes and fears, therefore it’s absolutely the way you feel about things, if you sit in this rut where you feel as if nothing is moving, it won’t move, the only inspiration comes from you yourself".


This is exactly what I have just recently spoken to my partner about. I know what I need and want, I feel he knows this too. Something has to break in order for us to move to another property. We need more space and we can't just dream about it. I am actively looking and sorting possibilites out. I feel my partner is not that devoted though.


"Now here we get to a wild card popping it’s head out, the Knight of Swords? What to make of this lot? MMMMMM, it indicates the position you are in. An explosive situation, luckily it will be quick but leave you with remorse".

This is so true...a lot of the time. I put up then I explode...put up and then explode. A constant spiral.

"I normally draw another card to tie up the tenth card, here we get the four of Wands reversed, Your business and personal relationships may have entered a time of stagnation. You are still experiencing the last remnants of the troubles you experienced before".

???? I feel I don't always know where go next with my business however this may be due to lack of space and money. As for personal then yes, stagnation is the right word t o use. "

At this time you may see the mountain ahead as a huge obstacle, but you have the potential to win this battle. You will most probably be spending a lot of time working at your business or your relationship. This would be the best opportunity to then strengthen your business base, unfortunately at the cost of your personal relationships".


I always seem to get through the battles due to my attitude. I must say though this long period of stagnantion has made me feel at quite a loss. I am spending time researching, educating myself and working toward my 2nd diploma. I am also getting my business off the ground slowly. My partner seems supportive however, I don't feel he is settled and we would like his own direction too. I am happy to let my personnal life take a back seat in order for my business to flourish. I have spent a long time on my love life and need to re focus. I feel my partner will understand this.


"The frustration adding to dissatisfaction with yourself and your situation. You need to consider your approach and endeavor to alter it a bit or change your attitude, gear yourself for success, and it will be yours".

DEFINITALY!!!


"What I also draw is three cards of Advice,
1) Page of Pentacles
2) The Moon
3) Two of Wands

Something interesting here is the way you have the Ace of Wands, and then now the Two of Wands. Your inherent ability to be successful and the Ace’s indication of new opportunities points the way you should consider going. With this in mind, it is obvious that you are the one who has the ability to plan and manage your future, keeping balance between your intuition and reality.  Using your creative ability has put you in a fortunate position. You are boldly embarking where no man has ever gone before".


[i]Well how wonderful! This is what I have always felt to be my true destiny. Now I have more comformation of that. I can only hope that my partner and children can understand and continue to support me. I am always the one with the stonger ability to plan and manage my future. Keeping the balance between my reality and intuition is proving to be easier these days.

Payewacker, Many thanks for reading for me. You have spent a long time on this and it is fully appreciated. Overall the reading is correct. There are a few things not so correct but hey... You'd be perfect then and I can't have that......  

Brightest blessings to you.

May I ask,? How do you become a reader on the forum? Do you just offer or do you have to be recognised first? I am very keen on giving guidance to others. As I have said, I am a tarot reader and I have been for many years.
Once again thank you...

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Hi

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Thank you Gem for getting back.

The basic guidlines of of this forum to read for people are the guidelines that I go by anyhow. After doing a diploma in Counselling I am fully aware of the ethics to apply.
Thought I would check with you all before going ahead.

Love and light
Purplesusi xxx

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