Im Elizabeth bd-2/14/1975 and Peter bd-1/25/1970
Im depressed and would like some insight please if anyone could help.
I just dont know what to do.

I did a reading for you in a 7 card spread called "The Answer".  I asked for some insight into your relationship, so here are the cards:

Card 1=past: 4 of sword:

In this deck most of the cards mean the same in regular and reverse position. It says this card heralds a time of rest after great anxiety and upset. There well be a pause before events move on to something better.  You face a period of low physical energy.

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Maybe this is the depression?  Maybe you are recovering from a bad time and are worn out?

Card 2=currently:  The Tower card 16 Major Arcana

This card means you have witnessed or experienced a shocking event that leaves you changed.  Potential catastrophe is near, be prepared.  Your life is complicated by discord in a relationship or the family. Unforeseen setbacks bring despondency and a period of frustration.  Your dreams may disintegrate into ashes.

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This is currently the problem, so did you recently have serious problems with him or his family?  You feel like you are losing him or have already lost him, but are hoping to reconcile?  Have you made serious plans, like getting married or moving in with each other, and you feel the whole thing is blowing up in your face?

Card 3=future:  Reversed =The Empress card 4 Major Arcana

In a negative position,   this card indicates either a desire to control others or that you are being controlled.

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Your future with him looks like it may get a little difficult.  There is a power struggle within the relationship.  You should either stand your ground on important issues or step back and let things you have obsessive control of go.  You can then work it out.

Card 4=suggestions and tips:  The Wheel card 10 Major Arcana:

Luck and fate are turning in your favor.  Your life has entered a change of cycles that will allow you to move forward or slide backward, depending upon your preparation and determination.  It is time to make changes.  Break with incompatible lovers, friends, relationships, or careers.

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Hopefully it's a job you should have to break with!  Maybe friends that have been causing trouble?  Are there other types of relationships that are causing you trouble?  A new guy friend who is trying to get in the way?

Card 5=tips and suggestion 2:  Two of cups

A great love or friendship is now possible.  This card can also indicate an engagement, marriage, or birth announcement.  There is the necessity of a commitment of some kind.

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Are you pregnant?  Congratulations if you are.  The suggestion here is there is a way to work it out and good things come from it.

Card 6=Obstacles:  Five of Cups:

You may be hurt from seeing from an illusion.  This is a period when you tend to dwell only on negative events or happenings.  This card foretells the possibility of a divorce or the breakup of a marriage or friendship.  You may need to fight against a feeling of depression.

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Maybe the illusion is coming from an outsider of the relationship, a jealous friend, mutual friend, or co-worker?  The obstacles say it may be a good time to tell this person good bye.  Maybe you are battling depression and it is telling you that is the obstacle?

Card 7=The answer/Summary:  Ten of Cups:

Goals are reached successfully.  Contentment and happiness come into your life.  Strong friendships or love brighten your existence.  A joyful family occasion is possible.

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This says again that you may be expecting!  Are you pregnant?  How ever you decide to reach your goals, it's the best decision.  You make stronger friends and your love deepens and makes you feel great.  Is there another family occasion in your life right now?  

There are tons of questions to ask.  It's hard to give someone a reading without knowing any answers, but I hope this helped.  Let me know more about if this seems close to your problems or not!

If anyone is interested in "The Answer" spread, you put them in a diamond shape.  The first card is at the top a little to the left of the center, the second is halfway down from the first to the left, the third card is halfway down from the second to the right, the fourth card is halfway down from the third to the right, the fifth card is halfway upward from the fourth card to the left, the sixth card is halfway upward from the fifth to the right, and the seventh card is exactly across from the first card, halfway up from the sixth card to the left.  Like this:

      1    7
    2        6
      3    5
         4

This one is my favorite.  I hope you like it.

Hi Scarletdaisies

I like this spread - Diamond - and I have used it a few times to friends.
Thank you.
cedars

Hi lizarred, it would be more helpful to give you a reading that would offer guidance and direction, if you had a more specific question. You say you want a relationship reading, and some insight as you don't know what to do. Perhaps you could give more detail, is it a question about an existing relationship? or is it a question about whether you will find a relationship? The cards will be able to give you insight and empower you to help you make the right decisions for yourself, but the more specific you question is the better your reading will be. Also if you frame you question in an open ended way rather than a yes/no way it is better, by open ended I mean like
What do I need to do/know/understand
How can I ..........
etc.

In my experience this  produces a better type of reading and give you all the power back to take control of your own life.

Bella

i really like the look of that spread. i think ill use it