hello... my name is valentini pogiatzi, i was born december 12 1985 in athens greece. i dont know the time, as i was adopted and my parents dont know.. i have a problem.. i am engaged to be married but lately i fell like i'm drowning in this relationship, i feel like i'm 80 years old and i want to do so many things but my fiance doesnt want to do much.. his name is giannis kokosis, born july 24 1984 in brussels belgium. i like another guy but i dont think he likes me back. still, i think of him all of the time. his name is giorgos keskempes, born april 17 1974 in athens greece (i think).. i'm in distress here, any help will do, anything you could tell me is valuable.. thank you in advance.. if you need any more details on anything please ask me... i could really really need some insight and help on this.. because i really love my fiance and i dont want to make a terrible mistake that will affect both our lives.. thank you so so much...

Hi vali, I speak for myself, honestly you shouldn't expect a reading from us, or even "advise"

There a to many variables playing the game. You are engaged to be married, but still have your eye on the otherside of the fence? I think the best guidance you can expect is from your own heart, how do you feel about what is happening, take time out and scratch open all the hidden corners in your heart.

I gave someone an explanation once, it goes like this: Whatever you do, you must feel at ease having all of you exposed in the light of the Sun, don't hide in the Moon it only reflects and have too many shadows.

In essence, you need to remeber you have a lifetime toghether, your lives will be intertwined as when you clasp your fingers or hands together. Living like this is sharing your love with the most important person for you on this earth. Only living parralel lives normally brings unhappiness.

Then, before you get married or get too carried away by the other person you must really sit down and think what you really need, not want.

Being bored in the relationship you have, is because you are fantasising about this other guy, it will only end once you have really made a commitment, when i mean a real commitment, don't think, you must know where you are happiest. It's all in your heart.

Blessed be

This is brilliant!

Hello,

It certainly doesn't need tarot cards to see here, I think you have answered your own question here already? You must either talk to your fiancee or call off the wedding, at least for a while. Things won't change just because you marry, if anything you will add additional worries to your burden. You will be completely tied into the marriage and committed for life. Please talk to him or take time out, but don't go ahead like this.

Best wishes

Meg

Hello Valentini
Why Oh why go ahead with this marriage at the budding age of 21? And your fiance is only a year older than you.
Why dont you court each other for a few years and get to know each other better?
Knowing Greek societies and their way of thinking, are you both being pushed to tie the knot? What is the hurry? Is your fiance controlled by his parents/family? Why are they in such a hurry to see him married at the age of 22? Are you providing a hefty prika?
Why is he so disinterested to do things at the age of 22? I see the other guy you are attracted to is older than your fiance. Does that have any bearing to do with it? Age and experience?

Take time out; talk to him and see how he sees the situation. Perhaps he feels trapped by family and society.......

Kali Tyxi kai kali zoe.