During the past three months, I have been recovering from a failed relationship. Long story short, I discovered this man was so dishonest me.  However, I did not confront him, about his dishonesty....I pretty much just walked away.... I just did not have the energy for anything less than the truth. I have been doing pretty well, until yesterday.  On yesterday, I was presented with additional incriminating information, which confirmed even more what a liar he is.  Now, I'm a stronger person and I want to confront him to say what I need to say....I need to free myself....I want to close this chapter of my life and move on and out from the rut I feel I've been in, because of my prior involvement with him.  What should I do?  Should I confront this person or allow the universe to deal with him?  My sun sign is taurus; his sun sign is Capricorn.   I would also appreciate any insight to my future career, finances and potential relationships.


Thank you.

Hi taurus20,

My heart goes out to you.
Being a capricorn myself I think that when we are in a relationship we give it our all. We are an all or nothing folks.
But so is taurus.
This short-term relationship in truth had a good chance to turn to something more tangible given the right circumstances.
Well, unless of course your capricorn man had a few unresolved issues prior to or during your time together.
Three months is a relatively short period , and you will soon get over it.
Imho, once you really get over it/him yourself and know where you stand it would be time to let go.
Letting go means that you allow him to be him and you to be you.

The following which I found online is long but believe me it's worth reading:

There are people who can walk away from you.

And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk
away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into
staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to
see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The bible said that, they came out from us
that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have
continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.


And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just
means that their part in the story is over. And you've got
to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep
trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I
believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm
faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong
to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and
see your worth.....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you .......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents ....

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude.......

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take

you to a new level in Him......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken
relationship.......

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try
to help themselves.....

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed .......

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so
used to handling yourself

and God is saying "take your hands off of it,"

then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

I wish you all the best

I agree with Untamed.....let the thing go, you have little again to confront him....if you have made up your mind that he is nothing to keep.
Ask yourself..."What do I gain" by confronting him? if it's just a quarrel...then don't bother....If it can make you stronger or give you something back, well then do it....but I can't see how....after all the whole thing goes on your Ego, it is your Ego who is hurt and sometimes we need that lesson.

In order for you to get into other relationship you need to come over him fast and get back on a positive attitude.
This will attract positive people, that will help you both in relationship and work.
We are all our own "fortune smith" so much of what will happen will depend on how you tackle your situation and how fate play on your team.

But I give you a big hug....and say good luck

I'm sorry I didn't clarify this but I was involved with this person for three years; it ended three months ago.  Essentially; however, you are right.....THANKS FOR THE BEAUTIFUL POEM.

Hi Taurus 20
Karma has already delt him a bad deck, it will be his down fall soon.
You on the other hand are holding back on something youve wanted to do because of him.
Its time to do it before the window of oppertunity closes for 5 more years.
Cheers Pete