Hi Angelique!  Hi Gem!

First of all, to answer your questions about the hair color ... it always helps me pick the significator card most appropriate for Angelique.  Second, I've always been able to "tune in" better (for reasons unknown) when I have a sense of hair color.  lol

Angelique,

I inquired about your job and the cards appear to instead tell me about your marriage or relationship(s).  This is apparently the more pressing issue.

I can not predict time-lines but can tell you about upcoming influences, most likely in the near future.

Here is what I see ...

Right now you feel that life is a real struggle and you have a tendency to go "back and forth" with how you feel about your marriage as opposed to having a strong and definitive opinion about it.  You ask yourself if it is really worth the effort you feel that you put into it?  You are hoping to be patient, self-controlled and with a plan so as not to do anything rash, however the struggle is sometimes that you wish there were more joy, excitement and fun in your marriage?  You really want to "break out and have a good time."  The irony is that you respect tradition so you are not quick to make a change and in your heart you want to do what is right.  More recently something brought you renewed faith in love and connecting with somebody and you have since taken a stance and made some sort of proclamation or decision about this matter.  I don't know what it was but it was kind of an announcement.  There is the possibility you will decide to put more effort out there in making a relationship work (your marriage?) but more likely I ultimately see new love.  (I don't want to get too personal on a public forum so please feel free to send me a private email if you have comments).  Unfortunately I can not tell if the "new love" is a renewal of your marriage or a new lover.  My instinct says that it will be  with a new person; however, there is also a lesser chance that you may simply work harder at maintaining the relationship you already have.  Either way it certainly looks positive for you (at least in the short-run) and I say this because I feel you'll be satisfied.  And either way there will be a fresh start.

The job ... you've clearly decided you are ready to take some action and have made some motions in that direction.  I sense you feel you have mastered the necessary skills on the job and are actually quite successful at what you do.  Right now you are at a "wait and see" point and have put your feelers out there, waiting to see what will develop next.  Somebody (a male) above you (or who you look up to) has given you some advice about this or has some power over how it turns out.  You are deliberating what to do about the home-life as well and this will apparently affect some of your professional decisions.  I do not see a new job in the near future, instead I see you taking more time to assess the situations and possibly coming up with new courses of action to get where you want to go.  Last, I see the possibility (but it is of lesser importance) of a younger girl, perhaps under the age of 25 (your daughter?) influencing in some capacity the outcome of what you decide to do about your work situation.

Angelique, I hope these readings shed some insight for you.  I almost never do readings for others and for some reason felt like answering your questions.  Please let me know whether or not what I write truly speaks to your situations.

Thanks,
Debbie

You are dead-on target and I am extremely impressed with your gift and what you wrote was exactly what I expected. Wait and see on all fronts until I arrive at an answer I feel comfortable with is the angle I have taken and will continue to until I find solutions I can be at peace with. Until then, it remains to be seen and is a slow process.

Thank you for your insight and I will be pming you as I do have more questions - I'm hoping you won't mind if I pick your brain a little more. Big mental hugs for you...