hi!
i just want to ask, I tried to let go of the past pains i've felt, somehow in the back of my mind, I want to retain the friendships that I've tried to block since I want to recuperate from the pain that it costs me.  (bcoz of rejection)

I don't really know how over feels, but somehow it doesn't hurt anymore,
anyone can read how my lovelife will turn out in the future??
thank you!

:D

Hi, I am glad that thigs no longer hurt for you. Sometimes friendships drift once we have split up no matter what we decide or how much we want to keep in touch and say we will. The best way forward is to learn from the whole experience and then try and move on, eager for the next chapter and what the world has to offer, by holding on to ties to past relationships we block one of the openings for a new one. There are only so many openings and we have to look and see what is happening in the present to see the way to the future, or we will be tied to living in the present and the past.

Your first card was the 3 of swords, sometimes meaning heartbreak and tragedy of the heart, the following cards give me the impression that you are very brave but are still struggling deep inside, perhaps your dreams are disturbed or you have moments of dispair and depression. You wanted things to go back how they were but you don't admit this to anyone.

You know that for your own happiness you have to make self sacrifices and perhaps admit to yourself that you were wrong, that you made a bad decision or blurted out in anger when you should have kept quiet.

To move on you must forgive yourself and prove that you have learnt from your previous moodsand methods and that you are now willing to smile and walk away without looking back.  Once that is done there is a bright horizon and not one but two very good relationships on the way, the first is with a younger person, very energetic and clean and with a great sense of humour. The other is more mature and wary of you because you are so much younger. You will be very happy and will find that it is easy to love more than one person at a time

Hi there

I feel that you have moved on a bit from your past but it still has a bit of a hold on you in terms of your feelings.  You have been few a rough few years, but you are coming to the end of it.  Its natural that you will still have feelings for these people, and you may even want to contact them again, which is a good idea as you will see these people  as friends rather than the enemy, and you can assess whether you really want to be friends them again.

You are a kind sensitive soul who wears their heart on their sleeve.  You give way too much and it does hurt you when people don't give the same back, which is fair enough.  You need to not give so much, wait until you know a person a bit better before you give your soul to them.  You will learn this in time as some people have really hurt you, and its taken a long time for you to come to terms with it.  Its also taken a toll your psychical and mental health, something which you are not prepared to go through again.


I would just take it one step at a time., and if you feel you want to make contact with some people from your past, just don't get caught up in it all and keep it light.  Don't give them your heart and soul and you will be fine.

Good luck

Rosemary

thank you for the uplifting readings...i actually let go of the people who had hurt me intentionally or unintentionlly..sometimes when i look back, i don't feel the pain i felt before so it's now ok.  I guess some people are not to last forever in one's life even if we try hard..

i'm hoping, wishing for a better experience in terms of romance/love this time, hopefully soon so that i won't dwell on the past...i was unlucky before but i won't think myself as the culprit. thanks again..

People come for a season and a reason, thats the way I tthink of it. You will do really well, have a happy life x